In this episode, we discussed with Minoru Okusa from NABIDO, a social cooperative that has supported socially withdrawn youths, commonly known as hikikomori for over 13 years, to explore the issue of youth isolation in modern society. He points out that young people withdrawing from society are not simply lazy; rather, they are burned out from perfectionism and the overwhelming pressure to meet expectations. To address this, he advises parents to stop trying to force change and instead leave their children as they are (NABIDO in Korean) which means let me alone, emphasizing that genuine recovery begins when parents acknowledge their own flaws. He also highlights that isolation stems not just from individual psychological factors, but from structural issues like meritocracy, an unstable job market, and a factory-like school system that fuels intense competition. Finally, noting how conversational AI has emerged as a helpful and compassionate tool for counseling, he adds that the ultimate goal of support is not merely getting young people out of their rooms, but helping them reach complete self-acceptance.
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If you are curious about Socially Withdrawn youths or Hikikomori and Mr. Minoru Ohkusa, please read his works linked below.
- Qinmin, Jiang. (Director). (2025). JUN AI | The Power of Silence│A Story of Reconciliation [Film]. YouTube.
- Family Transformation Roadmap [In Korean]
- Navido homepage : https://www.navido.kr/ [In Korean]
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