In today’s episode, we’re diving into the wrong reasons to get into the lifestyle.

We’ll share:

• Why swinging is not therapy
• A story about a female half of a couple who got pushed into it before she was ready
• How manipulation, imbalance, and desperation lead to disaster
• And what a solid foundation actually looks like before you start

If you’re here to spice things up, great. If you’re here to save something that’s already sinking—listen closely.

In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the differences between swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and everything in between.

We’ll talk about:

• Why we’re not poly, and never will be
• The show Polyfamily and the emotional chaos it shows
• Why emotional involvement, “second wives,” and relationship triangles almost never work
• And how swinging—with no emotional ties—is what actually strengthens our marriage

If you’re trying to figure out your lane in non-monogamy, this episode will help you get real clear, real fast.

In today’s episode, we’re sharing a real story from a night at our local club.

We met a couple who seemed like seasoned pros—but they were holding onto a fantasy that had never actually happened… until that night.

We’ll walk you through:

• How it all started with a casual bar conversation
• The surprising truth about this couple’s experience (or lack of it)
• The moment Vic set things in motion
• What it felt like to give them their first time—and why it turned us on just as much as them

This one’s about energy, anticipation, and why sometimes, the other couple’s experience is the hottest part of all.