If you have not watched Heated Rivalry yet, get off this podcast and start watching. No, seriously this episode will have a lot of spoilers.

In this episode, I have my first-ever repeat guest, Rebecca Giguere, intimacy researcher, relationship coach, and the person fully responsible for wrecking my emotional stability by recommending this series to me. We break down why women everywhere are losing their minds over this show, from the slow burn tension and locker room glances to the emotional vulnerability, tenderness, and male softness we rarely get to see on screen. We get into masculinity, taboo desire, emotional safety, and why watching men be both strong and gentle at the same time is doing things to us.

We talk about:

• Why yearning is hotter than instant gratification

• Male vulnerability and why it feels rare and electric to watch

• Queer love, representation, and the relief of no male gaze

• Female allyship and the power of safe women in men’s lives

• Why this show quietly raises your standards without you realizing

Listen in for a swoony, chaotic, emotionally unhinged breakdown of Heated Rivalry that will make you want to rewatch the entire series, text someone you miss, and rethink what you actually want from love, sex, and connection.

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Website:  www.unscriptedintimacy.com

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Physician assistant, intimacy educator, and podcast host Jordan D’Nelle joins me on the show for a bold, honest, no-sugarcoating conversation about casual sex, casual relationships, and how to actually enjoy them without losing yourself. From defining what casual really means to calling out the double standards women still face, we get into the real mechanics of having sex for pleasure without shame, confusion, or emotional burnout. We talk about why intention matters, how assumptions wreck the dynamic, and why self-respect is the sexiest boundary you can have.

We talk about:

• How to define casual sex in a way that centres women’s pleasure, agency, and desire

• Knowing your intentions before you get naked and why it changes everything

• Setting boundaries around overnights, cuddling, kissing, communication, and aftercare

• Knowing the red flags, green flags, and why chemistry makes us ignore what we should not

• Keeping yourself safe from STI’s

• How to stop chasing approval and start choosing yourself

Listen in for a real, unfiltered conversation that gives you permission to enjoy casual sex with confidence, self-respect, and zero shame.

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordandnelle/

Jordan’s Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/thevvvpodcast/

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Stand-up comedian and Broadway star Rick Younger joins me on the podcast for a hilariously real, no-filter conversation about sex, comedy, and the art of being a grown-ass man. From his legendary reputation as "the guy who's not afraid to eat the pussy" to navigating the wild worlds of stand-up, acting, and ethical porn, Rick leaves no stone (or taboo) unturned. We get into the hilarious truths about bedroom awkwardness, why men need to stop treating every pussy like the last one, and how a sense of humor is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

We talk about:

• Building a positive online community through his Low Budget Morning Show while calmly disarming trolls and racist comments.

• Why humor is a powerful tool for confidence on stage and a genuine asset for connection in the bedroom.

• Debunking the idea that every vagina works the same and how men can move beyond a one size fits all approach.

• Challenging pleasure taboos around topics like anal stimulation and nipple play for men and women.

• Navigating racial stereotypes in comedy and how being a Black man shapes the perception of his sexual material.

Listen in for a laugh-out-loud, no-holds-barred conversation that blends street-smart wisdom with Broadway flair, and proves that the best intimacy is built on humor, honesty, and a willingness to learn.

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Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills.

We talk about:

• why being unbed is not the same as being an incel, and why that distinction matters
• how shame, social skill gaps, and emotional shutdown make sex feel inaccessible
• why many men chase sex when what they are really craving is connection
• how neurodivergence and the absence of male friendship intensify isolation
• where the manosphere reflects real pain, and where it pushes men further from intimacy

Listen in for a direct, to-the-point conversation about why sex feels so out of reach for many men, and what actually helps build connection, confidence, and intimacy.

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TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST

There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body.

In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for expansion instead of something to hide.

We talk about:

• untangling early childhood sexual trauma and the healing journey that followed

• reclaiming pleasure and learning to trust her body again

• unlinking fantasy from orgasm and expanding her capacity for sensation

• using sex magic, arousal, shadow integration, and primal energy as tools for transformation

• embodying the dark feminine and dark masculine, choosing sovereignty, and understanding why taboo desires often hold our deepest medicine

Listen in and let this conversation invite you back into your body, your power, and your most authentic desires.

Connect with Sharon Marie Scott

Website: https://www.sharonmariescott.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonlifeturnedon/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lifeturnedon

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeturnedon?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

Substack: https://substack.com/@sharonmariescott

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There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.

In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk about consent, negotiation, emotional safety, and how those pieces make it possible to relax, let go, and experience pleasure more deeply than ever.

If you are curious about kink, ready to expand your pleasure, or wanting sex that feels richer and more connected, this episode offers practical tools you can take straight into your own intimacy. Listen in!

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Website: www.SirMarvelous.com

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There is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud.

In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire night was designed to invite people out of performance and into their real desires, and the transformation was electric. We explore how powerful it is to name the touch you want to receive, the touch you want to give, and how liberating it feels when your boundaries are honored without hesitation. I talk about the beauty of watching bodies melt as they ask for slower movement, firmer pressure, lighter tickles, and how meaningful it was for people to practice saying no and witness that nothing bad happened.

This is an invitation to bring that same energy into your own intimacy. Let pleasure become specific instead of assumed. And let consent be playful, sexy, collaborative, and deeply nourishing, because the way you ask for touch is part of your erotic power.

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TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence

There is a kind of harm that does not leave bruises, yet leaves a mark on your entire life.

In this episode, I sit with speaker and advocate Eunice Brownlee for a conversation that brings clarity to the subtle, confusing, and often invisible experience of coercive control. Eunice shares how a situationship that felt casual and harmless slowly shifted into a dynamic filled with manipulation, fear, and emotional exhaustion, long before she had the language to recognise it as abuse.

This conversation is an offering of validation and understanding for anyone who has ever felt confused, unsafe, or unsure of their own perceptions. If you are navigating a complicated relationship, healing from one, or loving someone who is, may this episode remind you that your intuition matters, your story is real, and there is nothing wrong with you for surviving the way you had to.

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Website: https://eunicebrownlee.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eunicebrownlee/

National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/

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