What if the most sacred thing you could do was not to “preserve your purity” but to reclaim your pleasure?

In this episode, I sit down with Lacey Bond, a certified sex, relationship, and intimacy coach whose work focuses on purity culture, kink, and polyamory. Together, we dive into how growing up in religious purity culture can shape your relationship with your body, your boundaries, and your ability to feel safe in intimacy and how kink offers a way home to yourself.

If you’ve ever been curious about how power play can be healing, what aftercare really looks like, or how consent can change everything, then this conversation is for you.

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What if intimacy could feel like play? In this conversation, we take touch, connection, and communication out of the serious zone and make it fun again.

In this episode, I’m joined by Candace Johnson, the creator of Touchy Feely, a game designed to help people connect more deeply through the power of touch and conversation. We talk about why touch isn’t just physical, how emotional intimacy shapes connection, and the different “levels” of closeness that make this game a total heart-opener.

This game (and this conversation) is flirty, it’s soulful, and it might just change the way you think about connection.

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Ghosting isn’t just something we do to others. We do it to ourselves when we stay too long, avoid the truth, or ignore what we really want. So how do you leave well, without abandoning yourself in the process?

In this episode, I sit down with Naomi Hattaway, author and consultant on the art of Leaving Well. We dive into why endings feel so messy, how to know when it’s time to walk away, and what it really looks like to close a chapter with clarity and dignity.

Naomi breaks down the difference between kindness and niceness, how to spot when power dynamics get in the way of leaving, and why “quiet power” can be your strongest tool during a breakup or transition. From ghosting and breadcrumbing to breakup rituals and friendship fades, this conversation is packed with real talk on how to stop overexplaining, honor your truth, and leave without ghosting yourself. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, a situationship, a friendship, or even leaving a job, this episode is your permission slip to choose yourself and move forward without shame.

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What if the key to hotter, more pleasurable sex was hiding in your pelvic floor? Most of us only hear about it after pregnancy, but pelvic floor health is for everyone. And yes, it can take your orgasms to the next level.

In this episode, I sit down with movement coach and pelvic floor expert Elyse Sparkes to break down everything you need to know about your pelvis. We talk about why pelvic floor health matters beyond childbirth, how it impacts pleasure in the bedroom, and the biggest myths that need to be retired once and for all.

Elyse shares how to spot the red flags of pelvic floor issues, why “tight is right” is a damaging myth, how breath and movement play into better sex, and what simple exercises can reconnect you to your body. Whether you’re looking to reduce pain, improve sensation, or just turn up the heat, this conversation will change the way you think about your pleasure.

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What happens when you date three dominant men — blindfolded — and one of them is your ex?

In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with Amanda, The Kink Consultant, and producer/host Catherine Drysdale to go behind the scenes of The Ex Factor, the bold live show where kink, chemistry, and past relationships collided on stage.

We get into why Amanda said yes, how Catherine brought it to life, and what it means to center desire and sexual preferences in dating.

Raw. Playful. Provocative. This is The Ex Factor, unmasked.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Guests

01:03 The Concept of The Ex Factor

02:59 Dynamics of Blind Dating with Exes

04:44 The Role of Blindfolds in Dating

06:50 Creating a Unique Dating Experience

08:30 Kink and Sexuality on Stage

10:57 The Importance of Kink Education

13:35 Understanding Kink Dynamics

15:13 Sexual Compatibility in Relationships

17:43 Breaking Down Societal Norms

21:47 Navigating Rejection and Societal Expectations

21:47 Empowerment in Dating: Flipping the Script

22:24 Redefining Relationships: The Role of Community

24:50 The Experiment: Revisiting Past Relationships

27:33 The Reality of Dating: Chemistry vs. Compatibility

33:50 Changing the Narrative: Dating in Modern Culture

40:05 The Role of Influencers in Dating Dynamics

42:45 Catherine's Journey as a Host

45:15 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility

47:47 Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships

50:08 The Power of Communication in Kink

56:34 The Role of Family in Relationships

56:41 Future Plans for The Ex Factor

57:53 Coming to Completion: Kink or Cringe?

What if love didn’t come with rules? Relationship anarchy challenges everything you think you know about commitment, desire, and connection—and it’s hotter than you might expect. 🔥

In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with the brilliant Adriana Smith to explore how to craft relationships on your own terms—where honesty, autonomy, and radical desire lead the way. We talk about breaking free from labels, rewriting the “relationship escalator,” and embracing love that’s unapologetically yours.

Whether you’re curious, adventurous, or ready to ignite your own love revolution, this episode is your wild invitation.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Relationship Anarchy

02:11 Understanding Relationship Anarchy

04:34 Communication and Agreements in Relationships

06:31 Exploring Intimacy and Connection

12:04 Pleasure and Sexuality in Relationship Anarchy

16:08 Self-Discovery and Understanding Needs

17:41 Understanding Intentions in Relationships

20:05 Navigating Relationship Challenges

22:22 Communicating Compatibility and Connection

23:16 Exploring Relationship Anarchy

23:59 Applying Relationship Anarchy to Life

25:41 Coming to Completion

Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Self-Intimacy and Desire

01:11 Understanding Desire Types

02:56 Exploring Arousal and Sensation

06:16 Personal Experiences with Desire

07:56 The Impact of Life Changes on Desire

11:37 Desire Types and Their Misunderstandings

14:08 The Role of Communication in Relationships

17:51 Shame and Societal Expectations

21:33 Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations

23:40 Navigating Different Desire Types in Relationships

27:15 Exploring Myths of Desire

29:08 Cultural Conditioning and Its Impact

33:04 Understanding Desire Types

38:11 Communication in Relationships

42:21 Nervous System and Trauma

44:38 Self-Assessment of Desire

49:29 Reconnecting with Desire

51:40 Coming to Completion

Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential?

In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment. From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of self-exploration and communication, they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it.

You’ll learn:

• The difference between 40 types of orgasms (yes, really)

• Why the orgasm gap still exists — and how to challenge it

• How to communicate your desires with more confidence

• Why your body holds more pleasure than you’ve been taught

Whether you’re looking to expand your orgasmic toolkit or just want to feel more at home in your body, this episode is a must-listen.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Orgasms

11:14 Understanding the Types of Orgasms

15:21 The Pressure of Climaxing

16:57 Distinguishing Orgasm from Ejaculation

18:39 Exploring Lesser-Known Orgasm Types

22:45 Energy and Cervical Orgasms

24:43 Overlapping Orgasms and Their Experiences

26:07 Exploring Factors Affecting Sexual Experience

27:50 The Importance of Play in Sexual Exploration

29:21 Reclaiming Orgasms: A Personal Journey

31:24 Communication: The Key to Sexual Satisfaction

33:38 Understanding the Orgasm Gap

36:09 Prostate Orgasms: Breaking Taboos

38:41 The Role of Lubrication in Pleasure

39:56 Coming to Completion: Orgasmic Preferences