There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.

In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk about consent, negotiation, emotional safety, and how those pieces make it possible to relax, let go, and experience pleasure more deeply than ever.

If you are curious about kink, ready to expand your pleasure, or wanting sex that feels richer and more connected, this episode offers practical tools you can take straight into your own intimacy. Listen in!

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There is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud.

In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire night was designed to invite people out of performance and into their real desires, and the transformation was electric. We explore how powerful it is to name the touch you want to receive, the touch you want to give, and how liberating it feels when your boundaries are honored without hesitation. I talk about the beauty of watching bodies melt as they ask for slower movement, firmer pressure, lighter tickles, and how meaningful it was for people to practice saying no and witness that nothing bad happened.

This is an invitation to bring that same energy into your own intimacy. Let pleasure become specific instead of assumed. And let consent be playful, sexy, collaborative, and deeply nourishing, because the way you ask for touch is part of your erotic power.

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TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence

There is a kind of harm that does not leave bruises, yet leaves a mark on your entire life.

In this episode, I sit with speaker and advocate Eunice Brownlee for a conversation that brings clarity to the subtle, confusing, and often invisible experience of coercive control. Eunice shares how a situationship that felt casual and harmless slowly shifted into a dynamic filled with manipulation, fear, and emotional exhaustion, long before she had the language to recognise it as abuse.

This conversation is an offering of validation and understanding for anyone who has ever felt confused, unsafe, or unsure of their own perceptions. If you are navigating a complicated relationship, healing from one, or loving someone who is, may this episode remind you that your intuition matters, your story is real, and there is nothing wrong with you for surviving the way you had to.

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There is no shame in pleasure, and there is no shame in kink.

In this episode, I’m joined by certified sexologist and educator Bre Green for a conversation that’s equal parts healing and hot.Bre shares how she went from growing up in a deeply religious environment to reclaiming her sexuality through exploration, curiosity, and kink. We talk about why kink isn’t just about pain or power, rather it’s about safety, trust, and self-knowledge.

From pleasure mapping and sensory play to negotiation, communication, and aftercare, Bre breaks down what safe, intentional exploration really looks like. We also talk about how kink can be a space to rebuild confidence, learn your desires, and reconnect with your body after shame or suppression. This is an invitation to unlearn the guilt, lean into play, and give yourself permission to explore what feels good because pleasure is your birthright.

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What if the most sacred thing you could do was not to “preserve your purity” but to reclaim your pleasure?

In this episode, I sit down with Lacey Bond, a certified sex, relationship, and intimacy coach whose work focuses on purity culture, kink, and polyamory. Together, we dive into how growing up in religious purity culture can shape your relationship with your body, your boundaries, and your ability to feel safe in intimacy and how kink offers a way home to yourself.

If you’ve ever been curious about how power play can be healing, what aftercare really looks like, or how consent can change everything, then this conversation is for you.

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What if intimacy could feel like play? In this conversation, we take touch, connection, and communication out of the serious zone and make it fun again.

In this episode, I’m joined by Candace Johnson, the creator of Touchy Feely, a game designed to help people connect more deeply through the power of touch and conversation. We talk about why touch isn’t just physical, how emotional intimacy shapes connection, and the different “levels” of closeness that make this game a total heart-opener.

This game (and this conversation) is flirty, it’s soulful, and it might just change the way you think about connection.

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Ghosting isn’t just something we do to others. We do it to ourselves when we stay too long, avoid the truth, or ignore what we really want. So how do you leave well, without abandoning yourself in the process?

In this episode, I sit down with Naomi Hattaway, author and consultant on the art of Leaving Well. We dive into why endings feel so messy, how to know when it’s time to walk away, and what it really looks like to close a chapter with clarity and dignity.

Naomi breaks down the difference between kindness and niceness, how to spot when power dynamics get in the way of leaving, and why “quiet power” can be your strongest tool during a breakup or transition. From ghosting and breadcrumbing to breakup rituals and friendship fades, this conversation is packed with real talk on how to stop overexplaining, honor your truth, and leave without ghosting yourself. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, a situationship, a friendship, or even leaving a job, this episode is your permission slip to choose yourself and move forward without shame.

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What if the key to hotter, more pleasurable sex was hiding in your pelvic floor? Most of us only hear about it after pregnancy, but pelvic floor health is for everyone. And yes, it can take your orgasms to the next level.

In this episode, I sit down with movement coach and pelvic floor expert Elyse Sparkes to break down everything you need to know about your pelvis. We talk about why pelvic floor health matters beyond childbirth, how it impacts pleasure in the bedroom, and the biggest myths that need to be retired once and for all.

Elyse shares how to spot the red flags of pelvic floor issues, why “tight is right” is a damaging myth, how breath and movement play into better sex, and what simple exercises can reconnect you to your body. Whether you’re looking to reduce pain, improve sensation, or just turn up the heat, this conversation will change the way you think about your pleasure.

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