How well do you know your finger techniques?

In this second anniversary episode, I’m sharing another After Hours moment with you! This time, it’s with Steph Zapata, sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work. We kick things off with a game called Fingering It Out, where Steph schools us on fingering techniques, erogenous zones, and why lube is always the answer. Then we get real and go deeper into Steph's personal journey from years of shame and disconnection to reclaiming their body, their pleasure, and themselves.

We also talk about:

• how shame shows up in the bedroom and what to do instead of fighting it

• reclaiming your identity and body as home through sex education

• how to live from your heart instead of your anxiety-riddled mind

• using dirty talk to turn intrusive thoughts into real-time communication with your partner

• why imposter syndrome and fear do not have to hold you back from showing up

If you have ever felt disconnected from your body, stuck in your head during sex, or like pleasure is something you have to earn, this episode is your reminder that becoming whole is a process, shame is not yours to keep, and dirty talk might just be the hack that changes your sex life.

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Did you know that different kinds of lube are designed for different sensitivities, toys, and sexual activities? Because yes, your lube actually matters more than you think.

In this anniversary episode, I’m sharing an After Hours moment with previous podcast guest and founder of Lubify, Orla Maguire. We break down the differences between water-based, silicone, oil-based, and organic lubes, how to know which one works best for your needs, and why ingredients matter when it comes to intimate care.

We also talk about:

• ingredients to look for and why lube should feel like skincare for your vulva and penis

• somatics and what it means to reconnect with your body

• self-pleasure, sensation, and embodied intimacy

• simple breathwork techniques for grounding and nervous system regulation

• why slowing down helps you experience more pleasure and connection

• how to become more aware of what your body actually wants and needs

  
  

If you have ever grabbed a random bottle of lube without thinking twice, this episode might completely change the way you think about pleasure products. Your body deserves care, attention, and products that actually support your pleasure instead of working against it.

Connect with Orla Maguire

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Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order

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Your sexual energy is not dirty, shameful, or something you need to suppress. It is life force, creativity, connection, and one of the most powerful expressions of being human.

In this episode, I sit down with transformational life coach, Kundalini yoga teacher, and Sacred Alchemy podcast host Elizabeth Hudson for a deeply expansive conversation about sacred sexuality, shame, spiritual connection, and reclaiming pleasure. We talk about the ways religion, purity culture, trauma, and societal conditioning disconnect people from their bodies and desires, and why so many people carry shame around the very energy that created them. Elizabeth breaks down the sacral chakra, sexual energy as creative force, and the connection between spirituality, embodiment, pleasure, and healing.

We also talk about:

• healing sexual trauma through somatic work, breathwork, and nervous system regulation

• why pleasure is your birthright and not something to feel guilty about

• the connection between spirituality, sensuality, and divine energy

• conscious partnership and creating deeper intimacy through presence and awareness

• feminine energy, embodiment, and reclaiming pleasure without shame

• why creativity and sexuality are more connected than most people realise

  
  

If you have ever struggled with shame around your body, your pleasure, or your desires, this episode is your reminder that there is nothing inherently wrong with your sexuality. Your body is not something to disconnect from. It is something to come home to.

Connect with Elizabeth Hudson

https://elizabeth-hudson.com/

https://www.instagram.com/elizabeth.hudson11/

https://elizabeth-hudson.com/sexual-alchemy-podcast/

Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order

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Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide

Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6

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