College feels like a high-stakes competition, but the ground is shifting fast and for many families, that shift brings unexpected advantages. We sit down with John Marcus, senior higher education reporter at The Hechinger Report, to unpack the demographic cliff: the coming drop in the number of 18-year-olds and the ripple effects already hitting college enrollment, budgets, and even campus closures.

We talk about what this new buyer’s market means for real families in the college admissions process. John explains why tuition discounting keeps climbing, why sticker price is often a mirage, and how tools like direct admission and fee waivers are changing the tone of recruiting. We also get practical about what parents can actually do, including negotiating for more financial aid and comparing offers without fearing an acceptance will be rescinded.

Then we go deeper on smart “homework” that protects your student and your budget: checking earnings and outcomes by major using the US Department of Education College Scorecard, watching for warning signs like institutional debt and enrollment decline, and using resources like the Hechinger Report Financial Fitness Tracker. We also explore two major student-population shifts, fewer men on many campuses and fewer international students, plus what a looming labor shortage and AI disruption could mean for majors, careers, and new options like three-year applied bachelor’s degrees.

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College can be the most crowded place your student has ever lived and still feel painfully lonely. We’re seeing more college student loneliness and social isolation than many families expect, and the shock of it often makes students think they’re failing at college when they’re actually experiencing something common and human.

We dig into why this is happening now: smartphones and social media that replace face-to-face time, COVID-era disruption that stole key years of social practice, and a campus world where streaming, online shopping, hybrid classes, and food delivery make it possible to spend days in a dorm room without real connection. We also talk about the quiet trap of highlight reels online and why students don’t usually admit they’re lonely to each other.

From there, we get practical. We share how we think about loneliness versus depression warning signs, how parents can ask better questions than “How are you?”, and how to listen without accidentally shutting the conversation down. We also lean on research and resources we love, including Richard Light’s findings on involvement and satisfaction, Harlan Cohen’s people, places, and patience framework, and the idea of “mattering” as a path to belonging through contribution.

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As a follow-up to our earlier episode on communicating with professors (#83), Lynn and Vicki explore some of the benefits of relationships with professors, what those relationships might look like, and how students might approach and work with faculty members outside of the classroom. We often assume many of these social skills are second nature and common sense, but post Covid, students may need help in developing these skills. Parents may be one of their student’s most valuable coaches.

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You can spend a fortune on college and still miss the point if you treat it like something to “get through.” In this episode, Vicki and Lynn sit down with political scientist and longtime professor Dr Michael Pomante, author of the book “What Professors Wish Students Knew: Things Parents and Students Should Know Before Attending College” to talk about the mindset shifts he wishes every student and parent understood before day one on campus. We discuss the decisions that shape the whole admission and college experience: how to know whether a college degree is truly the right path, what students actually learn outside the classroom, and why curiosity is more than a personality trait in higher education. Michael also breaks down an often overlooked detail for college planning: professors’ jobs look very different at community colleges, liberal arts colleges, and large research universities, and that difference changes what kind of support and access students can expect. We also talk about balancing academics with a part-time job, how many work hours tend to be sustainable, and why determination often matters more than raw intelligence when things get hard.

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Your student gets accepted, pays the deposit, and then a placement email lands like a surprise bill: developmental math, remedial writing, foundational reading. What does that actually mean, and is it going to slow graduation down? We unpack the real purpose of developmental education and why colleges use it as a bridge to college-level work, not a punishment. We also talk through the most common misunderstandings families have about credit, transcripts, tuition, and financial aid when a course may or may not count toward the degree.

We walk through how colleges decide placement, from high school GPA and specific course grades to SAT/ACT scores, placement exams like Accuplacer, and even surveys about study habits and motivation. If your student is taking assessments in the chaos of senior year, we explain why effort and timing matter, how to ask for a retest, and why talking with an advisor early can prevent a bad fit that ripples into prerequisites and major requirements.

You’ll also hear what’s changing across higher education: co-requisite support models that pair the regular credit-bearing class with a smaller lab for extra feedback, plus smarter math pathways aligned to majors like social sciences or STEM. We end with a practical checklist of questions to ask on college tours and during onboarding, including success rates after developmental courses, summer bridge options, and the hidden financial aid risks of taking catch-up classes elsewhere if it changes first-year status to transfer.

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Law school can look like a straight line from college to a JD, until you learn how much hinges on one quiet detail: timing. We sit down with Jennifer Balboni, a criminal justice professor and long time pre law advisor, to map the real law school admissions process in plain language so parents and students can plan early and avoid expensive surprises.

We unpack why law school applications have surged, what draws students to the law in the first place, and why many students pivot once they arrive and discover new areas like contracts, torts, or estates. Jennifer explains how rolling admissions works, why applying in September or October can dramatically improve both acceptance odds and merit based scholarship offers, and why waiting until late winter can leave fewer seats and little money on the table. We also talk frankly about debt and why “getting in” is not the only goal.

Then we demystify the LSAT: what it tests, why it feels unlike other exams, and how to treat prep like marathon training. You will hear practical guidance on building a study timeline, choosing a test date that keeps retake options open, strengthening GPA, earning meaningful academic recommendations, and finding ABA accredited programs that fit a student’s goals and learning style. We close with advice for parents on staying supportive, keeping perspective, and helping a student choose the next right step if they do not get the result they hoped for.

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We were honored to be able to spend some time talking with Jessica Lahey, author of The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed, about her new book The Addiction Inoculation: Raising Healthy Kids in a Culture of Dependence. Jessica’s new book weaves together her personal story about addiction with a tremendous amount of information about topics such as brain development, drinking culture, substance use disorder, and ways both parents and schools can approach this sensitive topic. The book contains suggestions and scripts for conversations with your kids from pre-school through elementary, middle and high school as well as college. With this book, parents will be armed with the information they need to talk to their kids about alcohol and drugs.

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The college admission process can be daunting for everyone, but maybe a little more overwhelming for first generation students and their families. In this episode, we talk with someone who knows the ins and outs of admission as an admission director, but who was also a first generation student. Elizabeth and Vicki are joined by Sacha Thieme, Associate Vice Chancellor of Enrollment and Executive Director of Admissions at Indiana University Bloomington, who breaks down a practical division of labor for the college admissions process: students keep the agency, voice, and decisions, while parents provide boundaries, honest expectations, and gentle accountability. For first-generation families, we cover what to ask on tours and what challenges can show up after arrival. Our conversation with Sacha Thieme will help and reassure all families that they can weather the college admission process.

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