Most sport leaders are trained to perform. To plan, execute, and deliver results. But somewhere between the scoreboard and the locker room, something gets lost -- the human doing the leading.

This is the first episode of Co-Active for Sport Leaders, a series that follows the Co-Active coaching model as a guide for sport leaders who want to lead from the inside out. Not just manage performance, but develop the person behind it.

In this episode, we introduce the core idea: Being before Doing. What it means to be grounded in who you are before deciding what you do. And why the best sport leaders aren't just tactically sharp -- they're deeply self-aware.

Whether you're a head coach, an athletic director, or a leader in sport who feels like something is missing, this series is for you.

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach.

Learn more at acumencollective.co

I never thought I was a bad listener. I just had no idea what real listening actually was.

For 30 years, I was at Stage 1 without knowing it. Unconsciously incompetent. You don't know what you don't know.

In this episode, I walk through the Co-Active framework that changed how I show up with athletes. Four stages of learning. Three levels of listening. And what it actually looks like on the ground with youth, college, and professional athletes.

We get into:

• Why most coaches are stuck at Level 1 without knowing it
• What Level 2 listening looks like in a real conversation with an athlete
• How Level 3 changes everything -- what isn't being said matters as much as what is
• Why the kid on the bench is carrying something, and what to do about it
• What elite and professional athletes actually need from a coach

The athletes in front of you already have the answers. Your job is to listen at a level that lets them come forward.

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach.

Learn more at acumencollective.co

I never thought I was running a critical inner voice. I was just moving too fast to hear it.

Then I went through Co-Active training. Hundreds of hours of coaches coaching coaches. You can't hide behind the theory when someone is always sitting across from you, paying attention. And somewhere in those sessions, I heard it. The saboteur. And everything changed.

In this episode, I walk through what the saboteur actually is, where it comes from, and how it is quietly running your locker room right now. We cover the Judge, the nine accomplice saboteurs, and what neuroscience tells us about why you cannot be fully present and in judgment at the same time.

We get into:

• What the saboteur is and why it feels like the truth
• The Judge and the three directions it points
• The nine accomplice saboteurs and the ones most common in sport
• How you are authoring your athletes' inner voice every single day
• The Anson Dorrance approach to comparison and why transparency works
• What this means for youth, elite, and professional athletes
• And the question that rarely gets asked in coaching rooms: how are you actually doing?

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach.

Learn more at acumencollective.co