For years, Tina Erwin's question was whether she could trust the experiences she couldn't explain. Then her six-year-old niece Ariana died—and the question changed.

In Part Two, Tina recounts the phone call that changed her family, the grief that followed, and the extraordinary experiences she says began unfolding after Ariana's death. As Tina and her family learn how to live with loss, neighbors, grieving families, and eventually strangers begin entering the story. What had once felt deeply personal becomes, for Tina, a question of responsibility: If you believe you have the ability to help someone, what are you supposed to do with it?

This documentary explores grief after the loss of a child, family, spiritual belief, unresolved grief, purpose, love, and service without asking listeners to share Tina's beliefs. At its center is a human question almost anyone can recognize: how do we keep living—and keep showing up for one another—after someone we love is gone?

Tina also shares the experiences that led her to write about grief, create what she calls the Crossing Over Prayer, and describe the years after her Navy career as a life of spiritual service.

Content note: This episode includes discussion of the sudden death of a child and grief.

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Tina Erwin built her life around discipline, responsibility, and facts. But long before she understood what it meant, moments of instinct—and eventually a voice she couldn't explain—kept appearing when the stakes were highest.

In Part One of this two-part story, Tina looks back on coming of age during the Vietnam era, surviving dangerous experiences in Central and South America, challenging authority when her instincts told her something was wrong, and building a career in the U.S. Navy at a time when women were still pushing through barriers inside the service. Through it all, one question quietly follows her: When something inside you says pay attention, how do you know when to trust it?

This is not a story about proving the paranormal. It's a story about intuition, leadership, responsibility, women in the military, and the experiences that slowly changed the way Tina understood herself.

Tina Erwin is a retired U.S. Navy officer and author whose later work explores grief, spiritual experiences, and what she describes as service to both the living and the dead.

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Generational trauma, generational healing, mindfulness, and Generation Alpha come together in Part Two of Queen’s story.

After tracing her maternal ancestry to the Fula people of Guinea-Bissau, Queen began thinking differently about what families carry from one generation to the next. Her belief is simple but powerful: if trauma can travel through a bloodline, healing can move through it, too.

But for Queen, looking backward is only part of the story.

Her attention turns toward the generation coming next.

Drawing on 27 years as an educator, Queen created 52 Insights for Gen Alpha: A Conscious Curriculum, designed to help young people develop self-awareness, mindfulness, relationship skills, social awareness, and conscious decision-making in a world that has been digital since the day they were born.

In Part Two, Queen talks about returning home to care for her parents, losing them within ten months of each other, reconnecting with her ancestry, and how those experiences eventually became connected to her work with children.

Because perhaps healing what came before us also changes what we hand to those who come after.

Topics include: generational trauma, generational healing, Generation Alpha, mindfulness for children, social emotional learning, ancestry, caregiving, conscious parenting, education, emotional intelligence, family patterns, and breaking generational cycles.

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