Guest: Neely James, MSN, RN, RN-BC, PMP

What if the words you spoke to someone years ago became the reason they stayed?

In this episode of Care Beyond the Chart, host Misty Burgett shares the deeply personal story that nearly ended her nursing career before it had truly begun. As a brand-new nurse, Misty found herself caring for a patient whose devastating decline led to her first code blue, an internal hospital investigation, and overwhelming feelings of anxiety and self-doubt. Although she wasn't responsible for the medical error that contributed to the patient's death, the emotional aftermath left her questioning whether she belonged in nursing at all.

During the investigation, a corporate nurse educator named Neely James asked Misty a question and then offered a perspective that would change the course of her professional career.

More than sixteen years later, Misty tracks down and reunites with Neely to revisit that conversation, explore its impact and reflect on the unseen emotional burdens nurses carry throughout their careers.

Together they discuss:

• The emotional impact of adverse patient events on nurses
• The concept of the "second victim" in healthcare
• Why compassion for ourselves is often harder than compassion for others
• The power of noticing when a colleague is struggling
• How a single conversation can create a ripple effect that extends to thousands of patients, students, and future nurses

This episode is more than a story about surviving one difficult shift. It's about what happens when someone sees us at our lowest and reminds us who we are before we forget ourselves. It's about the mentors who shape careers without ever realizing it. And it's about the extraordinary impact ordinary kindness can have in healthcare.

If you've ever questioned whether you were good enough… If you've carried guilt long after a patient encounter… If you've wondered whether your encouragement makes a difference….This conversation is for you.

In This Episode

• Misty's story of nearly leaving nursing after a traumatic patient event
• How one conversation changed the trajectory of her career
• A reunion with the nurse educator who has now become a friend
• Honest discussion about trauma, resilience, grace, and healing in nursing

Guests: Erin Cunningham and Pat Gerig

This deeply moving tribute episode highlights the life and legacy of Martha Vergara a nurse whose quiet power, unshakeable dignity, and boundless compassion left a mark that time simply cannot erase.

Host Misty Burgett is joined by two remarkable nurses who had the privilege of walking alongside Martha at a Long-Term Acute Care (LTAC) Hospital in Fort Wayne, Indiana. Pat Gerig is a recently retired RN whose 48-year nursing career took her from LPN to wound care specialist a journey she credits, in part, to Martha's steady influence. Erin Cunningham has been a practicing nurse since 1994 and found her professional home in hospital case management, where Martha's mentorship helped shape the clinician and person she is today. Together, these three voices paint a portrait of a woman who embodied what it truly means to Care Beyond the Chart.

The conversation opens with a powerful question: what single word comes to mind when you think of Martha? Pat answers without hesitation, "Dignity." Erin offers, "Professionalism." From there, the episode unfolds into a rich exploration of how Martha led through the consistent, intentional way she showed up for every person around her. Whether she was stepping into a chaotic clinical situation with calmness, mentoring a new nurse without a trace of condescension, or navigating a difficult conversation with a grieving family, Martha's presence was described as a salve or something that soothed, steadied, and restored.

One of the most unforgettable stories shared in this episode involves a homeless man Martha discovered sheltering on a closed hospital floor during a cold winter night. Rather than immediately alerting security, Martha first ordered him a meal tray and gave him supplies to clean up, choosing to see a human being in need before she saw a liability. This story, and others like it, reveal a nurse who was deeply tuned in to the social determinants of health long before the phrase became part of mainstream clinical conversation.

The episode also dives into Martha's exceptional gift for handling conflict and difficult conversations. Even when patients, families, or physicians were emotionally volatile, Martha would listen quietly, allow space for the storm to pass, and then ask with calm simplicity, "Okay, so now what do you want to do?" Misty shares how this taught her one of nursing's most important lessons: that the anger directed at a nurse often has nothing to do with the nurse at all. It's about grief, fear, and loss finding their closest target. Martha's ability to hold that space with grace, without internalizing the pain or becoming defensive, was a masterclass in emotional intelligence and patient-centered care.

But Martha was far more than her clinical wisdom. This episode is also filled with laughter, and beautifully so. Listeners will hear about the prank involving a mannequin that sent Martha running and shouting in Spanish, only to dissolve into laughter once she realized what was really happening. They'll smile at the "Hot Pockets" incident, in which batteries and loose change in Martha's pocket created a small fire, and Martha responded with characteristic cool, even offering to write up an incident report. Listeners will absolutely delight in the Grand Rapids adventure involving a conference, homemade wine, a casino, and a driver who called himself "Big Daddy," all while Martha watched from the background, eyes wide and skeptical. These moments and others remind us that Martha was a full, vibrant, compassionate nurse.

Guest: Tracy Espinoza

When a Patient Can't Read Their Own Language — A Nursing Story That Changed Everything.

What if the biggest barrier to your patient's care had nothing to do with their diagnosis? One nursing student's clinical day uncovered something that a 10-day hospital stay had completely missed — and it's a lesson every healthcare provider needs to hear.

Tracy Espinoza, a nursing student and certified medical assistant, walked into a clinical shift and ended up caring for two non-English-speaking patients. What she discovered wasn't just a language barrier — it was layers of invisible fear, undetected illiteracy, and silent suffering. One patient was quietly guarding his abdomen in pain, yet reporting low pain scores. Why? He was uninsured and terrified that every medication meant another bill he couldn't pay. Another patient had been handed Spanish-language consent forms for an entire hospitalization — but no one had ever asked if he could read them.

"I let the nurse know, hey, our patient hasn't even reviewed this. He doesn't know how to read. And they're like, 'Oh, it's in Spanish.' I go, 'I know it's in Spanish, but he doesn't know how to read.' Even in his own language."

This is what happens when we assume that providing information in someone's language is the same as ensuring they understand it. Health literacy and language are not the same thing — and our patients deserve better than assumptions. Real care means asking deeper questions, sitting with discomfort, and never taking a nod for an answer.

Nursing is both a science and an art. The science keeps patients safe. The art keeps them human. Let's commit to practicing both.