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  • "The Love Doctor" on Money, Communication, and Building Safer Relationships
    2026/06/01

    On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince·s guest is Anil Gupta (AKA ·The Love Doctor·), an author, speaker, and relationship coach, who says many relationship breakdowns·especially around money·stem from lack of authentic communication and emotional safety. Anil shares the story of his 2008 financial collapse, and how his wife·s supportive response changed everything, leading him to build a speaking and media career. They discuss how financial conflict is often miscommunication, the importance of listening and responding (not reacting), and ensuring your partner has input on financial decisions, while also making them feel loved and respected. Anil then shares info on his books, virtual coaching, and resources at meetanil.com, to help develop and polish these skills

    01:05 Meet the Love Doctor

    02:29 Relationship Expert Mission

    04:10 Money Fights and Safety

    05:54 Rock Bottom to Breakthrough

    09:28 Budget Talks Without Blame

    13:55 Support Over Compromise

    20:11 Money Stories and Paris

    25:50 Build the Communication Muscle

    31:22 Books Coaching and Programs

    36:35 Final Kindness Challenge

    Key Links

    • https://meetanil.com/

    • https://www.instagram.com/anilgupta_lovedoctor

    • https://www.facebook.com/AnilLoveDoc

    • https://www.youtube.com/@AnilLoveDoc

    • https://www.linkedin.com/in/anilgupta-lovedoctor/

    • https://gitnux.org/marriage-happiness-statistics/

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    38 分
  • 247. Relationship Skills, Communication, and Money Conversations - Part 2
    2026/05/25

    On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince wraps up his conversation with relationship coach Brett Jones. This time around, they talk about money discussions and trust, anxiety and defensive spirals, resentment and repairing connection, and Brett's book and resources. For more on Brett book Samurai Love, resources, and upcoming events, go to the relationshipcode.org,

    00:56 Security Scanning vs Fixing

    01:50 Why Conversations Differ

    03:16 Anxiety and Defensive Spirals

    04:52 Presence Over Fixing

    10:38 Money Decisions and Trust

    16:12 Resentment and Repairing Connection

    20:21 Samurai Love Resources

    24:35 Final Takeaways and Links

    Key Links:

    • https://www.relationshipcode.org/

    • Samurai Love: Cut Through the Bulls**t In Relationships

    • Marie McCrystal Jones | Facebook

    • Brett Jones (@brettjonesmoney) • Instagram photos and videos

    • Brett P, Jones | Linkedin

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    27 分
  • 246. Relationship Skills, Communication, and Money Conversations
    2026/05/18

    On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince's guest is relationship coach Brett Jones. Brett and Vince discuss relationship skills. and how communication breakdowns—especially around money—can drive conflict and even divorce. Brett shares the story of how his first marriage collapsed, which led him into 30 years of relationship coaching. We also discuss why "love is not enough," how men and women often communicate differently, and how money conversations can trigger safety and security concerns, leading men to shut down when they hear criticism. For more on Brett, his book Samurai Love, resources, and upcoming events, go to the relationshipcode.org

    Key Topics:

    01:42 Why Relationships Need Skills

    02:55 Brett's Story and Divorce Stats

    07:47 Money Fights and Divorce Patterns

    11:36 Why Men Check Out

    14:24 Safety and Money Conversations

    18:19 Budget Talk Mistakes Men Make

    22:44 Letting your Partner Influence Decisions

    Key Links:

    • https://www.relationshipcode.org/

    • Samurai Love: Cut Through the Bulls**t In Relationships

    • Marie McCrystal Jones | Facebook

    • Brett Jones (@brettjonesmoney) • Instagram photos and videos

    • Brett P, Jones | Linkedin

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    27 分
  • 245. Money Fights, Money Stories, and Better Couple Communication
    2026/05/11

    On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince talks with Raffi Bilek, a marriage counselor and author of The Couples Communication Handbook:The Skills You Never Learned for the Marriage You Always Wanted. Vince and Ravi discuss why money is a top source of marital conflict and why financial disagreements are often a symptom of deeper issues like anxiety, resentment, or control. Raffi explains his process for helping couples move through conflict by slowing down, taking turns, identifying underlying feelings, practicing empathy, and exploring each partner·s ·money story,· so they can stay connected even without full agreement. Vince and Ravi also discuss how solutions should address both partners· needs (e.g., security vs. autonomy), and why separate finances can sometimes signal a lack of trust. For more on Raffi and The Couples Communication Handbook, go to thecommunicationbook.com

    01:05 Money Fights

    02:11 Finances and Marital Disagreements

    05:04 Money Is A Symptom

    08:23 Getting Past Defensiveness

    10:26 Money Stories Matter

    12:49 From Empathy To Plan

    15:46 Control And Trauma

    19:15 Teaching The Skill

    22:48 Joint Vs Separate Accounts

    26:58 Parting Advice And Book

    29:24 Where To Find Raffi

    30:13 Final Thanks

    Key Links

    • The Couples Communication Handbook

    • BaltimoreTherapyCenter.com

    • Raffi Bilek (@the.marriage.mentor) • Instagram photos and videos

    • Raffi Bilek | LinkedIn

    • Baltimore Therapy Center - YouTube

    • Baltimore Therapy Center - Facebook

    Contact the Host - vince@thecfoathome.com

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    32 分
  • 244. Principles, Faith, and Personal Finance for the Working Class - Part 2
    2026/05/05

    On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince wraps up his conversation with Dr. Mark L. Teague, author of A Working Man·s Guide, with a discussion of how even skeptics can apply a rational framework that points toward faith, humility and personal responsibility to solving life·s problems, then tie meaning and purpose to personal finance·treating money as a tool, not an end·using budgets, plans, and discipline rooted in intangibles. Mark also shares resources from A Working Man·s Guide, including the Impact Index and Stress to Success, and his website and social channels. For more, visit aworkingmansguide.com.

    00:50 Framework for Nonbelievers

    01:30 Faith as Rational Response

    02:16 Creation Points to Design

    04:20 The Moral Witness Within

    05:15 Accident vs Meaningful Universe

    06:13 Mimic Values Without Belief

    09:55 Humility and Responsibility

    13:33 Purpose Anchors Finances

    16:40 Money as a Tool Not Goal

    19:56 Book Guides and Stress Skills

    23:08 Social Links and Keynes Rant

    24:47 Closing Thanks and Wrap Up

    Key Links

    • A Working Man's Guide

    • Mark Teague (@DrMarkLTeague) • Facebook, Connect with friends

    • Mark Teague (@drmarklteague) • Instagram photos and videos

    Contact the Host - vince@thecfoathome.com

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    27 分
  • 243. Principles, Faith, and Personal Finance for the Working Class
    2026/04/28

    On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince·s guest is Dr. Mark Teague, author of A Working Man·s Guide, a value-driven roadmap aimed at helping working-class families thrive in careers, relationships, and finances. Mark shares his background from Texas Panhandle farm life to a doctorate in agricultural economics and a 30-year banking and finance career. From there, the conversation shifts to a discussion of Mark·s ·bedrock principles·, and how a moral foundation and faith relate to financial outcomes, especially through marriage. For more, visit aworkingmansguide.com

    02:02 Why Mark Wrote A Working Man's Guide

    02:29 Farm Roots to Corporate

    04:36 Cutting Through Noise

    06:38 Endorsement and Preamble

    09:22 Bedrock Principles Begin

    09:48 Life Is Problems

    11:28 Responsibility and Money

    13:33 Working Class Defined

    15:32 Wealth and Property Rights

    19:06 Keynes and Socialism

    22:07 Your Foundation North Star

    24:31 Morals Marriage and Wealth

    27:26 Faith Stats and Cohorts

    29:41 Values Over Divorce

    30:29 Marriage Money Math

    31:41 Divorce And Bankruptcy

    Key Links

    • A Working Man's Guide

    • Mark Teague (@DrMarkLTeague) • Facebook, Connect with friends

    • Mark Teague (@drmarklteague) • Instagram photos and videos

    Contact the Host - vince@thecfoathome.com

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    34 分
  • 242. Debt Relief and Consumer Rights
    2026/04/20

    On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince's guest is Efstathios Georgiou of Georgiou Law PLLC, a former bank attorney who now advocates for consumers facing credit card debt, collections, and lawsuits. Efstathios shares why debt should be treated as a solvable challenge, outlines common misconceptions pushed by national debt companies, and breaks down debt consolidation versus debt settlement, including credit score impacts and recovery timelines. Vince and Efstathios also discuss negotiating strategies, debt validation requests, the potential tax consequences of debt forgiveness and the importance of financial literacy ·aftercare,· once you·re out of debt. For more on Efstathios visit georgioulawpllc.com, or check out his podcast, Georgiou Law, PLLC Podcast

    01:16 From Bank Lawyer to Advocate

    03:07 Debt Is Not Shame

    04:45 How Much Debt Is Typical

    06:31 Bad Advice and Misconceptions

    09:25 Consolidation vs Settlement

    11:20 When Credit Score Matters

    15:10 Debt Buyers and Validation

    17:47 DIY Negotiation or Lawyer Up

    20:33 Served With a Lawsuit

    24:04 Different Debts Different Rules

    27:52 Aftercare and Literacy

    31:19 Harassment and Predatory Lending

    33:51 Avoid High Interest Lenders

    36:56 Buy Now Pay Later Risks

    39:18 Guest Podcast and Wrap Up

    Key Links

    • https://georgioulawpllc.com/

    • Georgiou Law PLLC Podcast

    • Georgiou Law, PLLC (@georgiou.law.pllc) • Instagram photos and videos

    • https://www.facebook.com/61576800958820/about/

    • https://www.youtube.com/@nyconsumercreditlaw

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    43 分
  • 241. Creating Wealth Amid the Noise: Long-Term Investing, Discipline, and Empowerment - Part 2
    2026/04/13

    On this episode of CFO at Home, VInce wraps up his conversation with Mario Sicari, Managing Partner at BGS Capital Management, about his book The Art of Creating Wealth: A Millennial, Gen Z, and Gen X Guide to Navigating Life Struggles. This time around, Vince and Mario discuss parents teaching money lessons, the importance of developing communication and networking skills, ·ignoring the noise· as an investor, and Mario·s book. For more on Mario; his book, and his business, go to bgscapitalmanage.com

    00:45 Parents Teaching Money

    02:56 Hard Love Lessons

    05:18 Networking Creates Luck

    09:07 Communication Skills Reset

    13:04 Wealth Transfer Wakeup

    15:00 Retirement Basics 401k

    18:00 Ignore Noise Build Wealth

    21:46 Mario's Book: The Art of Creating Wealth

    Key Links

    • The Art of Creating Wealth

    • https://www.bgscapitalmanage.com/

    • https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariosicari/

    Contact the Host - vince@thecfoathome.com

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    25 分