On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince·s guest is Anil Gupta (AKA ·The Love Doctor·), an author, speaker, and relationship coach, who says many relationship breakdowns·especially around money·stem from lack of authentic communication and emotional safety. Anil shares the story of his 2008 financial collapse, and how his wife·s supportive response changed everything, leading him to build a speaking and media career. They discuss how financial conflict is often miscommunication, the importance of listening and responding (not reacting), and ensuring your partner has input on financial decisions, while also making them feel loved and respected. Anil then shares info on his books, virtual coaching, and resources at meetanil.com, to help develop and polish these skills

01:05 Meet the Love Doctor

02:29 Relationship Expert Mission

04:10 Money Fights and Safety

05:54 Rock Bottom to Breakthrough

09:28 Budget Talks Without Blame

13:55 Support Over Compromise

20:11 Money Stories and Paris

25:50 Build the Communication Muscle

31:22 Books Coaching and Programs

36:35 Final Kindness Challenge

Key Links

• https://meetanil.com/

• https://www.instagram.com/anilgupta_lovedoctor

• https://www.facebook.com/AnilLoveDoc

• https://www.youtube.com/@AnilLoveDoc

• https://www.linkedin.com/in/anilgupta-lovedoctor/

• https://gitnux.org/marriage-happiness-statistics/

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On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince wraps up his conversation with relationship coach Brett Jones. This time around, they talk about money discussions and trust, anxiety and defensive spirals, resentment and repairing connection, and Brett's book and resources. For more on Brett book Samurai Love, resources, and upcoming events, go to the relationshipcode.org,

00:56 Security Scanning vs Fixing

01:50 Why Conversations Differ

03:16 Anxiety and Defensive Spirals

04:52 Presence Over Fixing

10:38 Money Decisions and Trust

16:12 Resentment and Repairing Connection

20:21 Samurai Love Resources

24:35 Final Takeaways and Links

Key Links:

• https://www.relationshipcode.org/

• Samurai Love: Cut Through the Bulls**t In Relationships

• Marie McCrystal Jones | Facebook

• Brett Jones (@brettjonesmoney) • Instagram photos and videos

• Brett P, Jones | Linkedin

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On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince's guest is relationship coach Brett Jones. Brett and Vince discuss relationship skills. and how communication breakdowns—especially around money—can drive conflict and even divorce. Brett shares the story of how his first marriage collapsed, which led him into 30 years of relationship coaching. We also discuss why "love is not enough," how men and women often communicate differently, and how money conversations can trigger safety and security concerns, leading men to shut down when they hear criticism. For more on Brett, his book Samurai Love, resources, and upcoming events, go to the relationshipcode.org

Key Topics:

01:42 Why Relationships Need Skills

02:55 Brett's Story and Divorce Stats

07:47 Money Fights and Divorce Patterns

11:36 Why Men Check Out

14:24 Safety and Money Conversations

18:19 Budget Talk Mistakes Men Make

22:44 Letting your Partner Influence Decisions

Key Links:

• https://www.relationshipcode.org/

• Samurai Love: Cut Through the Bulls**t In Relationships

• Marie McCrystal Jones | Facebook

• Brett Jones (@brettjonesmoney) • Instagram photos and videos

• Brett P, Jones | Linkedin

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