After three decades of doing life side by side, we’ve discovered so much—not just about each other, but about ourselves. In today’s episode, we’re getting personal and sharing what we’ve uncovered through 30 years of growth, faith, and connection.

Here’s what we cover:

• Why reassurance and respect are foundational in marriage
• What it really means to pursue and appreciate your spouse
• The surprising ways we process emotions differently — and how we make it work
• Why laughter is our secret superpower (and our sneaky escape route from real talk 😅)
• Creating space for quality time, fun, and adventure in every season
• How our marriage reflects our personal pursuit of God
• Loving the evolving versions of each other — through every high, low, and “in-between”
• Whether you’re just a few years in or nearing your own big milestone, this episode will help you reflect on the kind of love that lasts — one that’s honest, intentional, and full of grace.

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In this episode, we’re opening up about what 30 years of marriage has taught us—not just about love and partnership, but about personal growth, evolving identity, and how to stay connected through every season.

Marriage isn’t about staying the same—it’s about growing together and individually. From learning how to navigate emotional disconnection to honoring each other’s differences, we’re talking through the lessons we wish someone had told us sooner. If your relationship has ever felt off-rhythm, you’re not alone—and this conversation is for you.

Whether you're newly married or decades in, this episode will help you reflect, realign, and move forward with more grace and intention.

In this special anniversary episode, Chad and Megan kick off a 3-part series reflecting on their 30 years of marriage. This week, they share the 10 biggest lessons they’ve learned along the way—from navigating conflict with grace to staying emotionally and spiritually connected.

You’ll hear about:

• Why marriage is worth the work—even when it’s hard
• How unity doesn’t require total agreement
• The importance of staying emotionally and spiritually in sync
• How forgiveness, laughter, and growth shape a lasting relationship
• Why the best is yet to come—no matter what season you're in

If you're ready to grow a legacy-centered marriage that lasts, this episode is packed with truth, encouragement, and real talk!

In this heartfelt episode, we share the simple but powerful concept of “spring cleaning” your marriage. Just like clutter piles up in our homes, it can also build in our relationships—emotionally, spiritually, and even in our schedules. We talk about how to identify what’s getting in the way, clear it out with intention, and create space for deeper connection. From honest conversations and calendar resets to spiritual check-ins and small acts of maintenance, this episode will help you make room for what matters most.

In this solo episode, Chad dives into the power of transformation and the choices we make daily that shape our lives, marriages, and futures. He shares a powerful truth: What you don’t change, you choose. Whether it’s your health, relationships, finances, or personal growth, your current reality is a result of your past decisions.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, uninspired, or unsure of your next steps, this episode is a wake-up call. Tune in and discover how small, intentional choices can lead to massive transformation in every area of your life.

In this special Wife Chat episode, we sit down with April Riley to have an open and honest conversation about marriage, seasons of change, and how to navigate transitions with faith and intention. April shares her personal journey of stepping away from a 23-year career in education, the unexpected challenges that came with it, and how she and her husband, Mitch, worked through it together.

Through real-life experiences, we discuss how to cultivate deeper connection in marriage, the importance of honest communication, and the power of living out your legacy with purpose. Whether you’re navigating a career change, adjusting to a new season in life, or simply looking for ways to strengthen your marriage, this episode is full of encouragement and wisdom.

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We’re celebrating a milestone! Most podcasts don’t make it this far, but thanks to God, each other, and YOU, we’re here—reflecting on the journey, the lessons, and the legacy we’re building together. In this special anniversary episode, we’re revisiting some of our most impactful moments, sharing listener favorites, and diving into the core of what makes marriage work—commitment, growth, honesty, and God’s grace.

Whether you're newly married or decades in, this episode will remind you why marriage is worth the work.

In this episode of Built for Two, Chad and Megan Lacefield dive into the different seasons of marriage—busy seasons, growing seasons, waiting seasons, and challenging seasons. They discuss how recognizing the season you’re in can help you and your spouse stay connected, communicate better, and strengthen your relationship. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, adjusting to a big life transition, or facing a tough season, this episode will give you practical tools and encouragement to navigate it together.