In this episode, I share deeply personal stories about how giving a “marry me or lose me” ultimatum cost me the love and future I dreamed of. If you’re in a relationship, thinking about marriage, and feeling frustrated because your partner isn’t ready to commit, this video is for you. I explain why ultimatums backfire, how emotional blackmail damages relationships, and what you can do instead to move your relationship forward in a loving, constructive way. Whether you’re tired of being single, want to start a family, or are considering leaving your partner to motivate them, this honest conversation will help you avoid heartbreak and choose a healthier path to love and commitment.Sign up for Virtual Coaching with me: https://www.nydatingcoach.com/#RelationshipAdvice #Ultimatum #healthylove Chapters:00:00 Navigating Relationship Ultimatums01:19 Personal Regrets and Lessons Learned02:34 Why Ultimatums Don't Work03:20 My Biggest Mistake (Don't do this!)04:53 Our Relationship Lingered 07:25 The Impact of Ultimatums on Relationships08:28 My Story - Guy #209:07 If You've Never Felt This Way Before...10:14 What Ruined Our Relationship11:45 Attending a Wedding Can be BAD12:45 Commitment Issues13:56 One of my BIGGEST Regrets14:35 Don't Ignore Your Instincts!16:38 What to Do if you Want to Get Married17:09 Why Men Don't Respond to Ultimatums 17:47 Healthy Communication in Relationships18:00 Capping off My Story - Guy #218:45 What You Should Do (Not what I did!)20:21 How to Move Your Relationship Forward21:27 How to Get What You Want23:06 Don't Bail Out!24:06 Escaping the Relationship24:38 Moving Forward Without Manipulation25:37 Did you already give an ultimatum?Donna Barnes is an New York University Certified Love Coach, Breakup Specialist, Podcast Host, and Author of Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices. https://amzn.to/3gFykPSThe TRUTH About Healing Your Broken Heart: My Online Course to virtually hold your hand and help you get over your ex: https://www.breakuprecoveryplan.com10+ HOURS of COACHING VIDEOS, QUIZZES, CHECKLISTS, & MORE

Cheating is messy, complicated, and deeply emotional—but should you tell? In this episode of the Broken to Brave Podcast, Donna Barnes dives deep into the controversial question: if you know someone is cheating, do you tell their spouse? We explore why people cheat, what happens when passion collides with commitment, and how to handle forbidden love without destroying lives. Whether you’re married but secretly in love with someone else, struggling with the guilt of an affair, or wondering if you should reveal someone else’s betrayal, this honest relationship advice will help you decide your next step with integrity and clarity. Perfect for those seeking affair advice, marriage guidance, or emotional support for infidelity.Sign up for Virtual Coaching with me: https://www.nydatingcoach.com/#InfidelityAdvice#MarriageAndAffairs#ShouldYouTellChapters:00:00 The Complexity of Love and Betrayal01:12 Navigating Relationships and Infidelity02:57 Should You Tell04:21 My Story About a Mistress06:34 The Tangled Web Weaved09:13 Broken Trust10:36 The Love is Gone11:35 The Consequences of Cheating and Moving On

Breaking up is never easy, but ending a relationship the right way can make all the difference in how you and your partner move forward. In this video, Donna Barnes from the Broken to Brave Podcast shares 6 powerful steps on how to break up with someone kindly, clearly, and without causing unnecessary pain. If you’re looking for real relationship advice, better communication skills, or wondering how to end things without ghosting, this video is for you. Whether you’re single and searching for lasting love, or simply want to improve how you handle relationships, these expert tips will help you break up with confidence and compassion—while preparing for the healthy, lasting love you deserve.Sign up for Virtual Coaching with me: https://www.nydatingcoach.com/#RelationshipAdvice #HowToBreakUp #healthycommunication Chapters:00:00 Navigating Breakups: The Challenge of Ending Relationships00:49 Ghosting01:34 #1 Heads Up!02:05 The Right Way to Initiate a Breakup Conversation02:50 #2 Kind & Honest03:50 #3 Should We Be Friends?04:31 Communicating Feelings: Honesty Without Hurt05:22 #4 An Honest Conversation06:55 #5 Being Companionate07:16 The Importance of Clarity in Breakups07:46 #6 Lingering 08:57 Final Thoughts on Compassionate BreakupsDonna Barnes is an New York University Certified Love Coach, Breakup Specialist, Podcast Host, and Author of Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices. https://amzn.to/3gFykPSThe TRUTH About Healing Your Broken Heart: My Online Course to virtually hold your hand and help you get over your ex: https://www.breakuprecoveryplan.com10+ HOURS of COACHING VIDEOS, QUIZZES, CHECKLISTS, & MORE