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Ever struggled with ending a relationship when the person hasn't done anything wrong? Or wondered about the ethics surrounding affairs and who deserves blame? Our latest fishbowl episode tackles these uncomfortable dating topics with candid conversation and practical advice.

First, we address a listener who feels guilty about breaking up with a perfectly nice guy just because the spark has faded and their values don't align. We remind her—and you—that gut feelings are valid reasons to end relationships. Staying with someone despite fundamental incompatibilities only leads to resentment and disappointment for both parties. The dating world might feel like we're all "treading water at best," but that's never a reason to compromise your happiness or lower your standards.

The conversation shifts to a heated debate about accountability in affairs. When married men cheat, who bears responsibility? While the spouse who broke their vows carries the primary blame, we discuss why maintaining personal boundaries against dating married individuals matters. Our take? Both participants in an affair demonstrate questionable moral compasses, and focusing on revenge or public shaming only prolongs your pain. As we say, "every dog has its day" and "the chickens always come home to roost"—karma has its own timeline.

Throughout the episode, we balance practical wisdom with humor (including a brief detour about the merits of White Claw as a responsible parenting beverage choice). Whether you're navigating a difficult breakup or healing from betrayal, our straightforward advice reminds you to trust your instincts and surround yourself with people who share your values. Join our community where we tackle dating's toughest questions with honesty, empathy, and a healthy dose of reality.

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