After 9 years in a high conflict divorce and coparenting situation, Heather Clark and her ex are finally amicable, even spending Christmas together with their kids.

They went through mediation, fought in court with lawyers, and then Heather took matters into her own hands and decided to self-represent for their next court battle.

Heather Clark has an incredible story and the wisdom that only comes from lived experience.

Join me in this conversation as we discuss the journey from high conflict to amicable, what gave Heather the confidence to go up against an experienced lawyer to fight for her kids, and the advice she'd give anyone going through a stressful divorce.

Heather Clark helps women declutter their lives (mind, body, soul and home) and you can connect with Heather here.👇

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So often, we feel like we need to be in disciplinarian mode. We need to be the enforcer when it comes to boundaries.

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Four years ago I spent my 40th birthday walking an appraiser through my marital home. I had no idea where I was going to live, which country I wanted to be in, or how any of it was going to work out.

What followed was three years of following my intuition — Costa Rica, Bali, my parents' couch, and eventually back to a rental a few blocks from where I started.

In this episode I'm sharing the full journey of finding home again after divorce. The detours, the hard moments, the belief I had to work through when I didn't have a roof to call my own — and what finally made a rented space feel like ours.

If you're newly separated and have no idea where you're going to land, DM me on Instagram @breakingfreewithlindsay and we can chat to see if 1:1 coaching is right for you.

Book a FREE Clarity Call with me if you want your divorce and coparenting situation to be as amicable as possible. Let's figure out next steps together. DM me on Instagram to set it up.