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Breaking Free from Energy Vampires: Behavior, Boundaries & Bagels with Shane Laufman

Breaking Free from Energy Vampires: Behavior, Boundaries & Bagels with Shane Laufman

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 ⏱️ Full Timestamped Show Notes 00:00 – Intro Shane introduces himself and FQ3C – a behavioral achievement model focused on measuring personal progress. 00:40 – The Problem with Tracking Behavior Shane explains how society relies on external models but lacks tools for tracking personal behavior on an individual level. 01:40 – Debunking Popular Motivational Myths The danger of believing “just be consistent,” “just believe,” or “just take action.” Illustrations include jail time, candy bars, and toilets. 03:50 – Why Behavior Isn’t One-Dimensional FQ3C includes 12 variables, but the 5 most transformative ones are: Frequency Quality Consistency Continuity Clarity 05:00 – Smart Goals Are Dangerous Shane challenges the effectiveness of SMART goals, explaining how they create a false sense of direction. 06:30 – Bagel Analogy A humorous and powerful metaphor about running toward a goal, obstacles (cars, people, hot dogs), and improving continuity. 08:00 – Continuity Means Changing Your Environment Why most “energy vampires” are people you trust. Reclaiming control over your surroundings is critical to progress. 09:50 – PTSD & Support Systems Shane shares examples of when and why you need counseling, even after multiple failed attempts. 11:00 – You Can Start Over A motivational reminder that you can hop on a Greyhound and change your life today. 12:00 – Applying the Model Across Life Areas FQ3C works across business, faith, healing, and personal transformation. It’s not limited to one area. 13:00 – Data, Clarity & Environmental Barriers Why clarity needs real data and awareness of limiting beliefs. 14:00 – How to Identify Vampires Start with your goal. Then assess who supports it, who’s neutral, and who’s holding you back. 16:00 – Three Methods for Cutting Ties Severance: Ghosting with intention Handoff: Referring them to help resources Line in the Sand: Setting conditions and enforcing them with love 20:00 – Character Revealed in Distance Let people show their true behavior once you stop giving. Most won’t reach out. Shane shares his own 8-month identity reset story. 22:30 – Business Relationships & Boundaries How this applies to team dynamics and toxic work environments. You can’t stay where you don’t align. 25:30 – Brutal Honesty & Setting Conditions in Love Why setting boundaries is a sign of respect, not rejection. Holding people to standards benefits both sides. 27:00 – FQ3C: A Prerequisite to All Other Models This isn’t personality typing—it’s for anyone (even plants). It’s the foundation for all meaningful achievement. 30:00 – Real World Results Shane wrote a 62,000-word book in 16 days using the model. It’s about clarity and consistency, not magic. 32:00 – Insurance, Therapy & Behavioral Tracking FQ3C can help bridge the gap between therapy outcomes and insurance requirements by standardizing behavior tracking. 35:00 – The Broken System of Treating One Issue at a Time Mental health doesn’t work in silos. People have multiple challenges and need a way to measure progress on all of them. 37:00 – Individual Healing & Medication Shane and Nikki discuss the challenges of navigating medication reactions and the need for tailored solutions. 43:00 – Sensory Stories & Health Differences A lighter section about asthma, sensory triggers, smell blindness, and parenting mishaps with sour milk. 48:00 – Back to the Big Picture Success with vampires and goals comes down to behavioral change—especially severance and environment. 49:00 – How to Get the Tools FQ3C is available in audiobook, digital format, and assessments. You can start in 15–20 minutes, and even bring it to your counselor. 51:00 – Final Thoughts Shane encourages listeners to start now. Are you clear on your goal? Are your behaviors aligned? If not, take the assessment and begin.
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