The episode discusses the importance of setting healthy boundaries for mental well-being and emotional safety. It explores the definition of boundaries, reasons for struggling with them, signs of needing better boundaries, and tips for building and maintaining healthy boundaries. The episode also covers different types of boundaries in friendships, family, relationships, work, and social media, as well as the positive outcomes of setting boundaries.

Takeaways

• Healthy boundaries are essential for mental well-being and emotional safety.
• Setting boundaries leads to better relationships, less resentment, and more authentic connections.

Chapters

• 00:00 Understanding Boundaries
• 05:12 Signs of Needing Better Boundaries
• 11:04 Types of Boundaries: Relationships and Work
• 19:01 Outcomes of Setting Boundaries

Some of the most beautiful things in life take longer than we expected.

In this special Mother's Day episode of Borderline Winning, Sharina opens up about waiting 5 years and going through IVF to become a mother — and how that journey changed the way she sees healing, happiness, timelines, and life itself.

This episode is for:

• the women who feel behind
• the people rebuilding after survival mode
• the dreamers still waiting
• the exhausted moms
• and anyone learning how to enjoy life again after difficult seasons

We talk about:
✨ IVF & motherhood
✨ feeling “late” in life
✨ happiness after trauma
✨ tiny moments that save us
✨ healing without perfection
✨ learning to stop waiting for permission to feel joy

Because maybe your life isn’t behind.
Maybe it’s unfolding differently than you imagined.

And maybe… the things worth waiting for end up meaning the most.

🎙 Hosted by Sharina J
💛 Borderline Winning — Life’s messy. Progress is progress.

Stop scrolling—this might be exactly what your day needs.

Not everything that changes your life has to cost money, take hours, or require a full reset.

Sometimes it’s the smallest things…
The quiet things…
The things nobody talks about.

In this episode of Borderline Winning, we’re breaking down simple, FREE habits that can instantly shift your mood, your energy, and your mindset—starting today.

We’re talking about things like:
• Resetting your mind in minutes
• Feeling lighter without changing your situation
• Finding peace in the middle of real life (not the perfect version)

Because real life isn’t aesthetic.
It’s messy. It’s heavy sometimes.
But you still deserve moments that feel good.

And the best part?
You don’t need money, a new life, or a perfect routine to get there.

Just a few small shifts.

🎧 Tap in if you’re ready to feel even 10% better today.

You can be healed… and still have moments that hurt.

In this episode of Borderline Winning, I’m talking about what healing actually looks like in real life — not the highlight version, not the “I’m unbothered” version… the real version.

Because this week, I had a moment that tested everything I’ve worked on.

A doctor’s appointment that should’ve been simple turned into something that left me feeling small, uncomfortable, and honestly… triggered.

But here’s what was different:

I didn’t spiral.

And that’s what this episode is really about.

The shift from reacting… to responding.
From carrying everything… to choosing what’s mine.
From self-blame… to self-trust.

We’re getting into:

• Why healing doesn’t mean you stop feeling
• The difference between being triggered and becoming triggered
• How to stop internalizing other people’s behavior
• What self-forgiveness looks like in real time
• And how to protect your peace without shutting down

Because not everything that touches you… gets to stay with you.

✨ Tiny But Mighty Win: Not carrying something that wasn’t yours.

This isn’t the flashy version of winning —
this is real-life winning.

If you feel stuck, it might not be your situation… it might be the guilt you’re still holding onto.

Forgiving yourself isn’t talked about enough… but it might be the most important part of healing.

In this episode of Borderline Winning, I’m opening up about something deeply personal — a belief I carried for years that changed how I saw myself, my life, and even God.

If you’ve read my book Life of a Push Goddess, then you know part of my story. For a long time, I believed I was being punished by God after I was shot — and I tied that belief back to something as small as stealing candy the day before.

That belief stayed with me far longer than it should have.

This episode is about what it took to finally let that go — not just forgiving myself, but understanding that my life wasn’t a punishment… it was purpose.

We’re talking about:

• The hidden ways we punish ourselves long after the moment has passed
• Why guilt can keep you stuck without you realizing it
• The difference between accountability and self-destruction
• And how to finally start moving forward — without carrying everything with you

Because at some point… you’ve already paid for it in your mind.

✨ Tiny But Mighty Win: Choosing not to beat yourself up for something you can’t change anymore.

This isn’t the flashy version of winning —
this is real-life winning.

What if nothing’s wrong…
you’re just used to things being hard?

In this episode of Borderline Winning, we unpack the mindset that tells us struggle equals success—and why that belief might be keeping you stuck, exhausted, and constantly overthinking your life.

Because let’s be real…
if something feels calm, do you trust it? Or do you start looking for the problem?

We talk about:

• Why peace can feel uncomfortable (and even suspicious)
• How we confuse chaos with purpose and anxiety with excitement
• The difference between something being challenging… and something being misaligned
• And how to stop forcing things that were never meant to fit your life

This is your reminder that you don’t have to earn a good life through constant struggle.

Sometimes the real win is choosing what flows.
Choosing what feels right.
And allowing life to be… a little easier.

Plus, we wrap up with the Tiny But Mighty Win Report—because progress doesn’t have to be loud to matter.

The episode delves into navigating exhaustion, pressure, and the internal struggle to keep going. It explores strategies for self-care, recovery, and the importance of recognizing small wins. The conversation emphasizes resilience and the significance of not giving up, even in the face of challenges.

Takeaways

• Navigating exhaustion and pressure is a common experience, and it's important to acknowledge and address it.
• Embracing small wins and resilience is a crucial aspect of real-life winning.

Chapters

• 00:00 Navigating Exhaustion and Pressure
• 06:06 Recovering from a Crash Out

The episode explores the significance of finding happiness in small, ordinary moments and the impact of comparison and social media on our perception of happiness. It emphasizes the value of embracing tiny wins and highlights the importance of appreciating the collection of small moments that make life feel good.

Takeaways

• Happiness in small moments
• Appreciating the ordinary

Chapters

• 00:00 The Power of Small Moments
• 05:20 The Influence of Comparison and Social Media
• 10:21 The Collection of Small Moments