In this powerful episode of Beyond the Platform, Charles and Shaelis get real about the fears that nearly kept them from walking in their God-given calling. From the fear of judgment and the weight of their past, to feelings of inadequacy and even the fear of trying again after multiple miscarriages, they open up with raw honesty about the battles they’ve faced.

But they also share the hope that carried them forward, anchored in the truth of 2 Timothy 1:7: “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” It’s this promise that gave them the courage to finally step into what God has been calling them to for years: announcing the launch of Twelve Church.

This is an episode about overcoming fear, silencing the lies of the enemy, and stepping boldly into your purpose, because your past doesn’t disqualify you, it prepares you.

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In this raw and honest conversation, Charles and Shaelis talk about the childhood traumas they carried into their marriage and how not dealing with them became one of their biggest mistakes. Shaelis reveals how marrying without first facing her wounds left her overwhelmed, and Charles admits that, in the early years, he felt she should simply “deal with it” to keep up the image of being a pastor’s wife.

Together, they open up about the pressure to “play the part” in ministry while silently battling pain behind the scenes. Through time, honesty, and learning how to truly communicate, they discovered that healing and authenticity are far more powerful than pretending everything is fine.

If you’ve ever felt the weight of keeping up appearances while struggling inside, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone and that real freedom starts with facing the broken places.

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Go with us on a journey as we take you back to where it all began. In this first episode, we share our story—how our lives, marriage, and ministry have grown through the highs, lows, and everything in between. From the early days of serving in church to the seasons that tested our faith, you’ll hear how God’s grace has shaped who we are today. This is where Beyond the Platform begins—real conversations, real stories, and a heart to encourage you wherever you are on your own journey.

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