In this episode of Beyond Compatibility, I sit down with Victoria Brito, the founder of FitMeet Berlin—a fitness and social club helping singles in Berlin connect through shared movement, games, and low-pressure events. Victoria shares her own experience dating in Berlin for five years, the dating fatigue that inspired her to take action, and how she built a thriving community of over 3,000 members.

💡 About Victoria:Originally from Brazil and raised in the US, Victoria blends warmth, humor, and strategic thinking to create real-world spaces where singles can meet intentionally—without the stress of dating apps. Through running events, volleyball, yoga, and even themed games, she's changing the dating narrative, one meetup at a time.

We dive into:

📍 Why Victoria quit the apps and how offline dating changed her perspective

📍 The magic of shared physical activity—what running reveals about someone's character

📍 How FitMeet uses black clothing as a subtle signal of availability

📍 The importance of vibe-checks over high-pressure speed dating

📍 How the community grew from a WhatsApp message to thousands of members

📍 Navigating dating with honesty and respect: Victoria’s golden rules for showing up

📍 Dating fatigue, love bombing, and Berlin’s unique challenges

📍 The future of FitMeet: from Berlin to a multinational network

Whether you’re tired of swiping or just want a new way to meet kind, like-minded people, this episode is packed with laughs, stories, and real talk about building connection in a disconnected world.

🎧 Tune in and let’s dive in!

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00:00 Quick Promo

02:00 Meet Victoria Brito!

04:00 What Exactly Is FitMeet?

10:24 From Dating Fatigue to Founding a Movement

12:16 Why Dating in Big Cities Feels So Broken

15:08 How a Running Club Turned Into a Dating Revolution

21:41 Real Love Stories from FitMeet

23:09 Honest Dating Tips for Men

28:42 The Wild Story of How Victoria Met Her Boyfriend

34:02 Dating Advice for Women: Be Open, Be Kind

36:15 The Future of FitMeet & Victoria’s Vision

43:45 The Rise of Offline Dating & What’s Changing

44:44 Berlin Dating Horror Stories (You’ll Relate)

51:07 Men vs. Women: Building Understanding, Not Walls

54:16 Final Thoughts & How to Connect with Victoria

In this episode of Beyond Compatibility, I sit down with Anna Robbert, Country Manager for Germany at Meetic, part of Match Group, to discuss the present and future of online dating. Anna has spent years working behind the scenes at some of the world's biggest dating apps, helping singles find love and navigate the complexities of digital matchmaking.

💡 About Anna:
Anna Robbert brings more than a decade of experience in communications and marketing. From PR strategies for global lifestyle brands to destigmatizing online dating in German-speaking countries, she has an impressive track record. Since 2023, as Country Manager DACH, she has been responsible for Even, LoveScout24, Neu.de, and Zweisam. She bridges local market needs with global campaigns from Meetic’s headquarters in Paris.

We dive deep into:

📍 The challenges of dating as a single parent, including how 69% of German single parents report being ghosted after revealing they have kids.

📍 The overwhelming number of choices in dating apps, and why too many options might be making dating harder, not easier.

📍 The dating fatigue phenomenon—how swiping too much can lead to burnout, and tips to avoid frustration while using apps.

📍 The differences in dating experiences between men and women, including why men swipe right 40 times to get a match and how women manage overwhelming attention.

📍 Affinity-based dating apps—why niche platforms catering to specific groups (50+ singles, single parents, cultural backgrounds) are growing in popularity.

📍 The role of AI in dating apps—how artificial intelligence is shaping matchmaking, filtering potential partners, and even helping people craft better opening lines.

📍 The future of dating apps—what trends we can expect in the next decade, including how technology might reshape how we form relationships.

Whether you're struggling with too many matches or not enough, dealing with dating burnout, or just curious about how dating apps really work behind the scenes, this conversation is packed with insights, strategies, and expert advice.🎧 Tune in and let's dive in!

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00:00 Promo

01:48 Anna's work and drive

05:09 Challenges of launching a dating app

10:19 How to attract people

17:28 Best features in an app

22:41 Generalist vs Affinity apps

25:47 Future of dating apps

31:14 Dating apps dissatisfaction

36:15 Tips for Men

41:19 Tips for Women

46:32 Lying on your profile

50:14 Tips for preventing dating burn out

55:45 Final thoughts & where to find Anna

In this special season finale of Beyond Compatibility, my girlfriend, Burulça, steps into the host role to reflect on the journey so far. Together, we dive into the evolution of this podcast, its themes, and the lessons learned over the first 10 episodes.

Burulça and I discuss the origins of my passion for relationships, the challenges of shifting from a software engineering career to podcasting, and the incredible range of topics we’ve explored this season—from loneliness and dating culture to emotional intelligence and societal expectations. I also share some of the behind-the-scenes challenges of starting a podcast, including learning about production, editing, and social media distribution.

Key highlights of this episode include:

• Insights into why relationships are harder to navigate in today’s world.
• The role of technology in scaling challenges and opportunities in dating.
• The loneliness epidemic and why offline connections matter more than ever.
• A glimpse into the plans for Season 2, exploring friendships, AI, and the future of relationships.

This episode is a heartfelt reflection on the impact of this podcast journey and a look at what’s to come. Join us as we explore how to deepen connections, foster meaningful relationships, and navigate the complex intersection of biology, society, and technology.

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00:00 Podcast Introduction

00:27 Episode Introduction

02:39 What made you start this podcast?

04:30 How has your understanding of relationships evolved through the interviews this season?

05:57 How has the transition from software engineer to entrepreneur been for you?

14:23 Why are relationships or dating so challenging today?

19:18 How do you narrow down your options and decide who is “the one”?

21:40 You interviewed two matchmakers, what were their insights?

22:05 How do people decide on the one person they want to get to know better?

28:09 What are the main factors contributing to the loneliness epidemic? 28:29 What have you learned from the last nine episodes?

36:35 Do you see good interest in these kinds of events?

42:32 How do you figure out what kind of people you want to meet and build connections?

42:56 Should people be more intentional or put in more effort to nurture relationships?

45:51 What do you think about the underrepresentation of men in this topic?

57:16 What did you learn from the people you interviewed?

66:44 How does social media affect the stories we tell ourselves?

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