Why does gratitude feel so easy to feel yet so hard to say? In this Thanksgiving grooving session, we unpack the psychology behind our awkwardness around expressing appreciation—from miscaliberated assumptions to the belief that people can “just tell” how grateful we are. Drawing on research from Nick Epley and others, we explore how gratitude rewires the brain, boosts well-being, and strengthens relationships, and we share simple, science-backed nudges to help you connect more deeply with the people you love this holiday season.

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[0:00] What is Gratitude?

[1:51] Barriers to Expressing Gratitude

[3:44] Nudges for Practicing Gratitude

[6:54] The Power of In-Person Gratitude

[8:30] Closing Thoughts: Happy Thanksgiving!

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Arlo Guthrie - Alice's Restaurant

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Harvard instructor Margaret Andrews joins us to explore why effective leadership starts with self-awareness. We discuss blind spots, emotional intelligence, team norms, and the internal work leaders must do to better understand their impact. Margaret offers practical tools for developing people and navigating organizational context, showing how self-understanding reshapes culture, communication, and long-term leadership success.

[0:00] Introduction and Speed Round with Margaret Andrews

[7:10] What Managers Get Wrong

[16:59] Challenges of Leading Others

[21:42] Emotional Intelligence and Leadership

[27:20] The “Best Boss” Exercise

[35:54] Leading for the Long Term

[39:56] Advice for New Managers

[44:19] Desert Island Music

[49:38] Grooving Session: Self-Awareness, Biases, and Leadership Takeaways

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Manage Yourself to Lead Others by Margaret C. Andrews

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Rod Stewart - Have You Ever Seen the Rain?

Nina Simone - Feeling Good

What if the gender revolution never finished? Economist Corinne Low joins us to unpack why women have transformed the workforce while men’s roles at home have barely changed. Drawing on insights from her book Having It All, Corinne reveals why so many families are stretched thin, caught between data, social pressure, and outdated norms. Together, we explore what it means to “have it almost,” and how smarter boundaries, parental leave, and fairer divisions of labor could finally help us reach true balance at home and at work.

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[0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Corinne Low

[8:30] Gender Roles in Parenting

[18:58] Behavioral and Social Norms in Parenting

[27:32] Economic Models and Marriage

[38:29] Paternity Leave and Gender Roles

[44:18] Structural Changes and Workforce Adaptations

[52:49] Desert Island Music

[55:26] Grooving Session: Finding Balance at Home and at Work

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About Corinne

Having It All: What Data Tells Us About Women’s Lives and Getting the Most Out of Yours by Corinne Low, PhD

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Pearl Jam - Even Flow

The Beatles - Now and Then