What if the most productive thing you can do in midlife is…less?

This week on Before Boca, we're joined by Sarah Heinss toexplore slowmaxxing — the art of optimizing yourlife by slowing down. If you've spent decades rushing through every moment, treating everyday tasks like a crisis, and running on the fumes of hustle culture, this conversation is for you.

We unpack how constant multitasking impacts your nervoussystem, why midlife women are leading the backlash against optimization culture, and the surprising grief that can surface when life finally slows down. Sarah shares her top five practical ways to stop rushing and how toedit your lifestyle so you're not just doing less, but living more.

In this episode:

What is slowmaxxing? The internet's quiet rebellion against burnout

Why treating small momentslike emergencies is draining your nervous system

The grief of slowing down: what happens when the calendar finally clears

Practical ways to stop rushing — from walking slower to saying no

How to edit your lifestyle for calm, not just productivity

🎙️ Before Boca is the podcast for women rediscovering who they are after being everyone else's everything.

Can forgiveness help us let go of resentment, anger, andemotional pain? In this episode of Before Boca, we explore forgiveness in midlife—and why forgiveness is not the same as forgetting, trusting again, or reconciling.

Using the television show Shrinking as a startingpoint, we unpack what it really means to forgive someone who has hurt or betrayed you. We discuss the research-backed benefits of forgiveness, including reduced anxiety, rumination, depression, stress, and even blood pressure.

You’ll learn an eight-step process for forgiveness, includinghow to acknowledge what happened, stop minimizing the hurt, set healthy boundaries, replace rumination with intentional thoughts, and find meaning in your experience.

Most importantly, we explain the difference between forgivenessand reconciliation. Forgiveness may release the emotional grip an offense hason you—but reconciliation requires accountability, genuine remorse, consistent change, and emotional safety.

This conversation is for anyone in midlife carrying anger,disappointment, betrayal, or unresolved hurt and wondering how to move forward without pretending everything is okay.

Spoiler alert: This episodediscusses plot points from Shrinking.

What Our Adult Children Taught Us AboutBeing Authentic (We Weren't Ready)

In this episode, we sit down with two people who know us better than almost anyone — our children, Stella and Jake. Inspired by Brené Brown's Braving the Wilderness, we asked them the questions most parents never think toask: How do you stay true to yourself? What does self-trust actually look like? And where did we, as your parents, get it wrong?

Their answers surprised us. They challenged us. And honestly?They taught us more about living authentically in midlife than any self-helpbook ever has.

This conversation covers:

· What "belonging to yourself" meanswhen the world wants you to fit in

· How Stella and Jake navigate being true to theirvalues — even when it costs them

· The moment we realized our kids were braver thanwe are

· Practical advice for midlife women who arefinally ready to stop performing and start living authentically

Whether you're 25 or 55, this episode will make you rethinkwhat it means to be yourself.

🔗 Mentioned in thisepisode: Braving the Wilderness by Brené Brown

What should a woman over 50 actually be wearing? I sat downwith Fortune Dushey, an NYC-based stylist and founder of Fortune Inspired, toget real answers — no trends, no rules, just practical advice for finding your personal style in midlife.

In this episode we cover:

· Why you should stop chasing trends (and what todo instead)

· How to refresh a stale closet without startingover

· What's worth splurging on vs. what to save on

· The one question that changes how you shop:"Who are you dressing for?"

Fortune has been helping women build intentional wardrobessince launching Fortune Inspired in 2014. Her philosophy: style isn't about age— it's about knowing yourself.

The information shared on Before Boca is for general informational and entertainment purposes only. Thehosts are not medical, legal, or financial professionals, and nothing discussed on this podcast should be considered professional advice. Any actions takenbased on the content of this podcast are done at the listener’s own discretion. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual circumstances.

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Body image is one of the most complicated, most loaded topics for midlife women — and we're not tiptoeing around it.

In this episode of Before Boca, we sit down with Dr. Kristine Gravino, licensed psychologist, integrative mental health professional, and certified fitness & nutrition coach, who has spent over 24 years helping womentransform their lives by changing the way they think. Her specialty? The powerful connection between mindset, emotions, and behavior — and why that connection is the actual key to finally making peace with your body.

We unpack the narratives midlife women carry about their bodies, why consistency with healthy eating is so hard (and why we keep sabotaging ourselves), and how to cut through the noise of vibrating boards, GLP-1s, and fat-zapping lasers to figure out what actually works — and what's justmarketing.

In this episode:

What the typical midlife woman tells herself about her body — and why it's keeping her stuck

Emotional eating, self-sabotage, and the patterns we can't seem to break GLP-1s, peptides, and wellness gimmicks — what works, what doesn't, and what to skip

Dr. Gravino's 3 pieces of wisdom for midlife women on their relationship with their bodies

Rapid fire: What to say to the woman who keeps saying "I'll be happy when I lose 20 pounds"

The information shared on Before Boca is for general informational and entertainment purposes only. The hosts are not medical, legal, or financial professionals, and nothing discussed on this podcast should be consideredprofessional advice. Any actions taken based on the content of this podcast are done at the listener’s own discretion. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual circumstances.

Summer is for binging — and we're not just talking aboutmargaritas. In this episode of Before Boca, we're sharing our ultimate summer reading list and the TV shows we can't stop watching.

We've paired every book with a summer vacation vibe — because a Jersey Shore read hits different than a Tuscany one. From laugh-out-loud rom-coms to family dramas that'll make you question AI, we've got your beach bag covered. On the TV side: romance, comedy, nostalgia, drama, and the newseasons we're counting down to. Plus, we're sharing our current drink and dessert obsessions (Hugo Spritz and ambrosia, if you're asking) and a few things we're officially over.

Whether you're on an actual beach or just dreaming of one, thisepisode is your summer entertainment starter pack.

The information shared on Before Boca is for general informational and entertainment purposes only. Thehosts are not medical, legal, or financial professionals, and nothing discussed on this podcast should be considered professional advice. Any actions taken based on the content of this podcast are done at the listener’s own discretion.Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual circumstances.

What if the one word you've been avoiding is the key to your freedom in midlife?

In this episode of Before Boca, we're tackling our favorite B word — boundaries — with Dr. Jen Altman. She's here to separate the buzzword from the practice we desperately need to get right.

We unpack:

A definition of boundaries that actually makes sense (no therapy-speak)

Why women struggle to set boundaries without feeling guilty, mean, or selfish

The real cost of people-pleasing and self-abandonment

Why midlife is actually the perfect time to start — not too late

How to respond when someone gets angry at your boundary

Whether you need to explain yourself (spoiler: probably not)

Jen's top tips for knowing when you need a boundary and how to set one

If you've ever swallowed your own needs to keep the peace, this one's for you.

Dr. Jen Altman is a clinical psychologist and brings both professional insight and real-life wisdom to a conversation every midlife woman needs to hear.

The information shared on Before Boca is for general informational and entertainment purposes only. Thehosts are not medical, legal, or financial professionals, and nothing discussed on this podcast should be considered professional advice. Any actions taken based on the content of this podcast are done at the listener’s own discretion.Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual circumstances.

Everything has become… a lot. From over-the-top birthday parties to 12-step skincare routines, we're all feeling the pressure to do more, spend more, and be more. But why — and what's it actually costing us?

In this episode, we unpack the culture of "extra" — why vacations now need to be experiences, why kids' sports require sleep away camp-level prep, and why even our bathrooms are competing with spas. We break down a 2025 Springer Nature study on Fear of Missing Out (FoMO) and Status Anxiety as Drivers of Materialism and Conspicuous Consumption Among Social Media Users and get real about what's fueling all this excess: social media comparison, constant marketing (consumerism has tripled in the last 50 years, per the Financial Times), identity signaling, and the endless chase for the next dopamine hit.

But this isn't just a diagnosis — it's an intervention. We share six practical questions to ask yourself before the next purchase, party, or pressure spiral, including:

→ Would this seem excessive to me 10 years ago?→ Is this something I need, or is my identity attached to it?→ Would I be going this all out if no one was going to see it?

If you're exhausted by the treadmill of more and ready to choose less — on purpose — this one's for you.

The information shared on Before Boca is for general informational and entertainment purposes only. The hosts are not medical, legal, or financial professionals, and nothing discussed on this podcast should be considered professional advice. Any actions taken based on the content of this podcast are done at the listener’s own discretion. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual circumstances.