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Awkward Etiquette: Old Money & New Manners

Awkward Etiquette: Old Money & New Manners

著者： Kiki Astor
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Welcome to "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" – the podcast where old money meets new manners, and your Auntie Kiki spills the tea on all things etiquette, with a side of laughter and a dash of aristocratic charm! Join the illustrious Kiki Astor, author of smutty romance novels and grande dame of decorum, as she tackles your most pressing etiquette questions with the finesse of a debutante twirling at a ball. Wondering about the historical roots of fork placement or the proper way to decline a social invitation without causing a scandal? Auntie Kiki has you covered, darling! In each episode, Kiki Astor delves into the archives of social graces, uncovering the hidden gems of bygone eras and bringing them into the 21st century with a wink and a nod. Learn how to curtsy with confidence, when to deploy the subtle art of shade, and why you should never, ever drop your pedigree papers, whether it's during a soirée, a cocktail party, or in the PTA or HOA meeting. From navigating the treacherous waters of modern technology to mastering the delicate dance of small talk, Kiki Astor is here to ensure you ascend the social ladder without stepping on any well-heeled toes. So, grab your monocle, straighten your tiara, and prepare for a delightful blend of refined advice and uproarious anecdotes that will have you laughing all the way to the gilded gates of high society. Subscribe now and embark on a journey through the annals of etiquette, where Kiki Astor transforms the socially awkward into the effortlessly elegant, one podcast episode at a time. After all, darling, why be gauche when you can be gloriously graceful? 🥂 #AwkwardEtiquette #KikiAstor #MannersMatter2023 個人的成功 社会科学 自己啓発
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  • The Old Money Guide to Photography: Etiquette, Aesthetics & Slim Aarons

    The Old Money Guide to Photography: Etiquette, Aesthetics & Slim Aarons
    2026/07/13

    Have you ever wondered how to capture the effortless elegance of the old money aesthetic in your photographs? In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, Auntie Kiki explores the fascinating intersection of photography, lifestyle, and modern manners. From the stiff aristocratic oil portrait style photos of the past to the iconic, sun-drenched leisure captured by legendary photographer Slim Aarons, we decode the unwritten rules of taking, sharing, and displaying pictures. You will learn how to slimify your vacation snapshots without needing a private villa, the golden rules of smartphone photo etiquette to save your friendships, and how to decorate your home with personal memories without making it look cluttered or tacky. Put down the ring light, pour yourself a martini, and discover how to romanticize your everyday life while ensuring your photos remain perfectly timeless.

    COMPLETE SHOW NOTES

    EPISODE OVERVIEW Today we are turning our lens toward the ultimate guide to photography, etiquette, and the old money aesthetic. Whether you want to channel 1970s Palm Springs glamour or just want to know how to politely ask a friend not to post an unflattering photo of you, Auntie Kiki covers it all. We dive deep into the history of high-society photography and study the master of leisure, Slim Aarons, to learn how to capture attractive people doing attractive things in attractive places.

    WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

    A Short History of Old Money Photography We trace how wealthy families documented their legacies, transitioning from formal oil paintings and stiff Victorian daguerreotypes to Kodak society snapshots. Discover how the digital era has forced high society to adopt a discreet, understated online presence.

    Who Was Slim Aarons? A deep dive into the master of leisure photography. Learn how Slim Aarons defined the old money aesthetic by capturing candidly curated moments of high society in places like Palm Beach, Lake Como, and Gstaad.

    Iconic Photo Breakdown An analysis of classic Slim Aarons shots like Poolside Gossip, Holiday at the Villa, and Apres-Ski. Auntie Kiki explains why looking away from the camera, avoiding trendy fashion, and letting the setting do the heavy lifting are the ultimate visual flexes.

    How to Slimify Your Vacation Photos Actionable tips for romanticizing your life and capturing timeless, chic photos without a massive budget. Learn why you should ditch the ring light, embrace natural lighting, use elegant props like books or a bar cart, and wear classic linens and timeless silhouettes.

    Modern Photo Etiquette How to navigate the awkwardness of the digital age. Auntie Kiki shares the rules on asking for permission before snapping a pic, the massive faux pas of posting unflattering photos of your friends, and how to gracefully handle the situation when someone tags you in a terrible shot.

    Digital Good Manners The dos and don'ts of commenting on social media. Learn why you should never critique outfits or leave passive-aggressive comments, and why a curated highlight of three photos is always better than a twenty-seven photo hostage situation.

    Displaying Photos in Your Home The old money approach to interior design and family albums. Learn why discretion is key, which frames to choose (think tarnished silver, dark wood, or leather), and why sentiment belongs in intimate spaces like hallways and studies rather than formal public rooms.

    KEY TAKEAWAYS

    Posing is for people who do not belong. The trick to looking effortlessly wealthy is being caught mid-conversation or mid-recline without a single care in the world.

    Dress for timelessness. Avoid obvious logos, bright performance gear, and trendy fast fashion to ensure your photos age gracefully and never scream a specific year.

    Never sacrifice living in the present moment just to capture a photograph. Take your snapshot to commemorate the moment, then put your phone away.

    When displaying photos at home, less is more. Avoid overly matched gallery walls and massive flashy frames, opting instead for a few meaningful heritage or candid shots placed thoughtfully in private living areas.
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    49 分
  • Floating Status Symbols: Old Money Yachts, New Money Pontoons, and the Ultimate Guide to Boating Etiquette

    Floating Status Symbols: Old Money Yachts, New Money Pontoons, and the Ultimate Guide to Boating Etiquette
    2026/07/06

    In this episode of Awkward Etiquette: Old Money & New Manners, Auntie Kiki dives deep into the fascinating sociology of boating and yachting. From the quiet elegance of old money sloops and classic Rivas to the loud, party-centric energy of new money mega yachts and pontoons, boats are the ultimate floating status symbol. We cover the unwritten rules of yacht etiquette—what to wear, how to behave on board, and the social climber faux pas you absolutely must avoid. Plus, learn the history of iconic vessels, the psychology behind boat names, and practical tips for renting yachts or capturing timeless nautical style and home decor on a budget.

    Show Notes

    Episode Highlights:

    • [00:00] The Slim Aarons Standard: A look at the iconic 1983 photograph of Tullio Abbate and what it teaches us about effortless, unselfconscious luxury.
    • [04:15] Old Money vs. New Money Boats: The cultural differences between understated family sloops, classic wooden Rivas, and loud, performative party boats.
    • [09:30] Crucial Boating Etiquette: How to be the perfect boat guest. Rules on boarding, removing shoes, avoiding vanity, respecting the captain, and why you should never critique a docking maneuver.
    • [17:45] The Social Climber on Board: Cautionary tales of bad behavior at sea, the danger of over-accessorizing, and tone-deaf hostess gifts.
    • [21:10] Iconic Historical Yachts: From the Mayflower and the Titanic to Aristotle Onassis's Christina O and JFK's Honey Fitz.
    • [28:00] The Psychology of Boat Names: What your boat's name says about your lineage, aspirations, or desire for attention.
    • [32:30] The Yacht Rental Lifestyle: The pros and cons of chartering a yacht, why fraction ownership is a trap, and how to enjoy a boat day without the financial burden.
    • [36:00] Accessible Nautical Style: How to incorporate maritime elegance into your wardrobe and home decor without looking like a coastal cliché.

    Mentioned in this Episode:

    • Sponsor: Midnight Blue by Kiki Astor – A thrilling tale of old money perfume dynasties and ancient curses. Available on Amazon (Kindle, paperback, and audiobook).
    • Photography: Slim Aarons (Tullio Abbate 1983; Hotel du Cap-Eden-Roc 1969).
    • Book: Low Season in Saint-Tropez by Kiki Astor.

    Connect with Auntie Kiki:

    • Have a mortifying boating story or an etiquette question? Email: madamexofmontecito@gmail.com
    • If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and share it with your friends!
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  • Linen Literacy: A Modern Guide to the World's Oldest Luxury Fabric

    Linen Literacy: A Modern Guide to the World's Oldest Luxury Fabric
    2026/06/29
    Join Kiki Astor on Awkward Etiquette: Old Money and New Manners as she dives deep into the fascinating world of linen, revealing why this ancient luxury textile is the ultimate status symbol and a cornerstone of quiet luxury for old money. This episode unravels linen's rich history, from Paleolithic origins and its role as currency in ancient Egypt, to its resilience against the Industrial Revolution. Kiki explains the sociology of linen, detailing how pristine white linen once signified immense wealth through the conspicuous consumption of labor, and why today, rich people love wrinkles as a sign of authenticity and confidence, embracing patina over synthetic perfection. Gain crucial textile literacy by learning how to spot quality linen, understand the significance of geographical origins like Belgian flax and Irish linen, and avoid common linen blend scams (especially those with polyester). Kiki also shares essential linen etiquette: discerning when to iron (tablecloths, formal napkins) versus when to embrace natural wrinkles (shirts, casual wear). Discover how linen is a versatile, year-round fabric, not just for summer fashion, suitable for a range of occasions from country house gatherings to resort wear. This episode equips you with the knowledge to wear and appreciate linen with understated elegance and discerning manners, understanding the subtle social signaling it conveys. Show Notes Podcast: Awkward Etiquette: Old Money & New Manners Episode Title: Linen Literacy: A Modern Guide to the World's Oldest Luxury Fabric Host: Kiki Astor Episode Summary: In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, your Auntie Kiki, Kiki Astor, expertly guides you through the complex and captivating world of linen. Discover why this incredibly strong and luxurious natural fiber has been a secret status symbol for millennia and continues to define quiet luxury and old money style today. From its surprising history dating back 30,000 years, through its societal impact in ancient Egypt and the Roman Empire, to its modern-day role in understated elegance, Kiki unpacks everything you need to know. Learn the nuanced sociology of linen, including why the affluent embrace its natural wrinkles and patina as a mark of confidence and authenticity, in stark contrast to the new money pursuit of synthetic perfection. Kiki empowers you with vital textile literacy: how to identify quality linen by understanding its fibers, weave, luster, and GSM, and how to wisely navigate the market to avoid linen blend scams (especially polyester). She also shares the essential etiquette of linen: when to press for formality (like tablecloths and napkins) and when to let its natural creases speak volumes in summer outfits or year-round fashion. This episode is a must-listen for anyone wanting to master the art of wearing linen with discerning manners and sophisticated social signaling. Key Topics Covered: The ancient history of linen, predating cotton, from the Paleolithic era to its significance in ancient Egypt and Rome.Why linen is a true luxury textile and how it endured the Industrial Revolution.The sociology of linen: how white linen became a status symbol through conspicuous consumption of labor and what it signals today.The "psychology of wrinkles": why old money finds authenticity and confidence in linen's natural creases.Becoming textile literate: How to identify quality linen by examining fibers, weave density, natural luster, and understanding GSM (Grams per Square Meter).Navigating linen blends: distinguishing beneficial blends (cotton, silk) from deceptive ones (polyester blend, rayon, viscose).Geographical indicators of quality: Belgian flax, Irish linen, Italian finishing, and Lithuanian production.The etiquette of linen: When to iron/steam (e.g., tablecloths, formal wear) vs. when to embrace its natural state (everyday shirts, casual garments).Linen for all seasons: Styling heavyweight linen for spring, summer, autumn, and winter.Myth-busting common misconceptions about linen's strength, care requirements, and seasonality.The philosophy of longevity and graceful imperfection in old money style. Key Takeaways: Linen is a timeless symbol of understated elegance and quiet luxury, not a fleeting trend.True old money style embraces the patina and natural wrinkles of quality linen as a sign of confidence and appreciation for authenticity.Developing textile literacy allows you to discern high-quality linen and make smart purchasing decisions, avoiding scams.Linen etiquette is about understanding occasion and context, letting the fabric's nature guide your choices.With proper care, linen is a durable, versatile year-round fabric suitable for a range of fashion needs. More from Kiki Astor: "Midnight Blue" by Kiki Astor: Available now on Amazon (Kindle, paperback, and audiobook). Listen to more Awkward Etiquette: Subscribe to Awkward Etiquette: Old Money and...
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