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  • Moving My Podcast and Gaining Focus
    2025/08/01

    Why Autistic POV is leaving podbean and how it relates to autism and increased focus. While the podcast will now be hosted on Substack at barbaragraver.substack.com it will still be syndicated to Apple, Spotify, and elsewhere under the name Autistic POV. You just might have to look for new episodes as the old Autistic POV won't be update.


    Or simply join me on substack!


    I hope to see you there and thank you so much for listening.


    NOTE: If you see various episodes of the podcast please look for the logo with the rainy day rainy day rainbow background (instead of the purple one)! You can see the new logo below.



    • Listen to the NEW Autistic POV (and all the old episodes) on Spotify at https://open.spotify.com/show/3Ot2c01IU5MfpEoIvvPDde

    • Listen on Apple at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/autistic-pov/id1828995708

    • Listen on Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b0a4f4bf-4711-4d63-8cf4-6035db7a4c50/autistic-pov

    • Listen on Audible here: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Autistic-POV/B0D9ZRFH73?source_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp

    • Or check out my Substack Autistic POV podcast page to listen for free at: https://barbaragraver.substack.com/s/autistic-pov-podcast


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    8 分
  • Monotropism: A Theory of Autism
    2025/07/05

    This is the intro to a new series where I’ll be exploring a theory of autism called monotropism. I found out about the monotropic model of autism a few days ago and have just begun to learn about it.

    I don't know a lot as of yet (aside from my own lived experience as a person who definitely is monotropic) but I am intrigued and want to learn more. I'll be talking about it today and again in a future post.

    If you like my content, please follow the podcast!

    For more on monotropism, please visit monotropism.org and / or follow the podcast and we explore this topic.

    Check out my blog Writing On The Spectrum here: BarbaraGraver.substack.com

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    13 分
  • My Autistic Traits: Difference Not Deficit!
    2025/06/24
    In the episode I share how I rated my own autistic traits on a 1-10 scale and how I'm learning to think in terms of "difference, not deficit." Check out the blog post on charting my autistic traits here: https://barbaragraver.substack.com/p/charting-my-autistic-traitsCheck out my blog Writing On The Spectrum here: BarbaraGraver.substack.comIf you like my content, please follow the podcast!Full transcript below. If you need closed captioning (or the transcript is cut off), please listen via the podbean app or at AutisticPOV.com (https://www.autisticpov.com/).Episode 13 Transcript Welcome to Autistic POV. My name is Barbara Graver and I started this podcast to share a bit of my journey as a late diagnosed autistic. Hi everybody, this is Barbara Graver. Thank you for joining me today on Autistic POV. Today I wanted to talk a little bit about autistic characteristics and I'm going to0:32be doing this through the lens of the characteristics I've identified in myself. I just try to steer away from speaking for other people because there's such a a wide range of experience and abilities in autism that I feel whenever I try to speak for anyone else, I always feel like I'm getting it wrong.0:57So this is purely from my perspective. The disclaimer is these traits are not necessarily going to present the way they aren't going to present the same way across the spectrum as they present in me because we're all different. So I talked a little bit during my autism and psychic ability series,1:19I talked a little bit about the idea of a linear spectrum, a spectrum from high to low, as is suggested by the DSM-5. And I talked about why I have problems with that. I think ranking across the board is problematic, although I do think autism is a constellation of traits.1:39And I do think it could be useful to do specific individual ranking in terms of trait by trait. I think that's helpful. It gives you a better picture of yourself and what your abilities and what your challenges might be. Ranking people as a whole, to me, I feel that's a little problematic for various reasons,2:01such as the many different comorbidities, apraxia, for example, anxiety. all kinds of comorbidities come into play, as well as inherent differences like talents and abilities and intellect. It's just there's so much at play that I think ranking from low to high is problematic. And it's also,2:26it causes people to fall into a way of thinking that I don't feel is very helpful. I don't think it's helpful to to think of people as more or less autistic or more or less challenged or more or less worthwhile. I don't think that's a good way to think.2:44And I think when you're ranking individuals from low to high, you're always going to kind of suggest that or lead people into that kind of thinking, which I don't like. So I did discuss this before, but I just wanted to put it out there kind of as a disclaimer.2:59So what I did, and I have a blog post on this that I'll link to. What I did for myself was I looked at the DSM-5. I don't like the DSM-5. I don't like that it calls autism a disorder. I don't like that it ranks people.3:14But I do think it does a fair job of describing observable traits in autistics. I don't find it totally useless, even though I have issues with it. So what I kind of did is I took the traits that were listed in the DSM-5 and sort of adapted them to better reflect me.3:35And I used those traits to come up with categories for myself. And I made various charts and put them in my blog, which people seem to like. I'll link to that. And the chart showed my different characteristics. And this is not an idea that's specific to me.3:57You could see a lot of people will be looking at autism in this way. It's a spectrum, but it's not a linear spectrum. It's more of like a radial spectrum, which I think is interesting. You know, it's kind of interesting in terms of dimensionality.4:11We think of a spectrum as high to low, and technically that's what it is. But that's a linear 2D kind of dimensionality, where if you want to think of it more 3D, kind of as a radial sort of thing, you could do that too. So what I did is I came up with 10 categories.4:31One of my things had 10 categories. One had 12 because it just worked better for the type of charts I used. But the categories I used were hypersensitivity, hyposensitivity, hyper fixations, special interests, nonverbal communication. I don't like that word nonverbal, but I didn't know what else to use.4:54Some people will call it social cues, but I find that confusing too. But that's basically your ability. It should probably be called non-speaking communication, your ability to communicate and to read cues without speaking. Conversation. I use conversation. So instead of Expressive communication. I just kind of lumped conversation together. Relationships, transitions, echolalia, repetitive motor, and pattern recognition.5:28And then I rated myself. in each of these categories. And I think ...
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    20 分
  • 4 Issues with the Telepathy Tapes Podcast
    2025/06/06

    In this episode, I talk about 4 possible issues with the Telepathy Tapes podcast AND share a great resource for further reading. I hope I've offered a more nuanced look at the Telepathy Tapes podcast in this episode (which is the 3rd in what has become my Autism and Psychic Abilities series) than I did in my previous episodes!

    The resource I mentioned in the podcast is:

    SarahCook.substack.com/p/for-the-birds-radical-empathy

    This is an excellent article and a really good Substack to follow.

    You can also follow my Substack if you're so inclined at:

    BarbaraGraver.substack.com

    If you like my content, please follow the podcast!

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    12 分
  • Autistic Traits and Psychic Ability
    2025/05/17

    Is there a relationship between autistic traits and psychic ability?

    Join me for a discussion of how autistic traits like hyper-sensitivity, hyper-connectivity and pattern recognition might relate to psychic abilities.

    The blog post and autism trait charts I mentioned in the video can be found on my blog at: https://barbaragraver.substack.com/p/charting-my-autistic-traits

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    16 分
  • Autism and Psychic Experience
    2025/05/02

    Is there a relationship between autism and psychic experience?

    A connection between autism and telepathy has been reported by the families of some nonverbal autistic people. As a late diagnosed autistic this interests me because intuition has been a guiding force in my life.

    Like all many areas of parapsychology, more research is needed, but I think it’s a topic worth discussing.

    In this episode I talk about my own person experience, what other people have to say, the idea of psychic ability as a spectrum trait and a bit about parapsychology (from what I have learned at the Rhine Institute).

    This is my first time talking about this topic, I’m going to be talking about it more in the next couple of podcasts!

    Resources for this episode include:

    Autism and the God Connection by William Stillman

    The Telepathy Tapes Podcast (https://thetelepathytapes.com/)

    The Rhine Institute (https://www.rhineonline.org/what-is-parapsychology)

    Dr. Diane Hennacy/Powell (https://drdianehennacy.com/telepathy/)

    Psychology Today article on the Telepathy Tapes by Jeff Tarant PhD (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/choosing-your-meditation-style/202503/science-skepticism-and-the-telepathy-tapes)

    Dr. Hennacy/Powell's Response to Jonathan Jarry (https://thetelepathytapes.com/dr-powell-defense)

    Sharing Our Autism Story (https://www.autisticpov.com/e/sharing-our-autistic-story-ep-6/)

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    16 分
  • Masking in Autism: A Pro and Con POV
    2025/04/17

    How masking can be helpful at times. How it can hurt. My experience with autistic masking and unmasking. My new unmasking autism workbook. I am planning future episodes on the topic.

    Thank you for listening!

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    Post quoted in the article: "Why classic therapies don't work for autistic people?" by Pascale Larivierre

    Workbook mentioned in the article "The Unmasking Workbook for Autistic Adults" by Jessica Penot, LPC-S

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    23 分
  • Dysregulation, Creativity & Special Interests
    2025/04/04

    How does dysregulation impact creativity and our special interests? And what does this mean to autistic individuals (like me) who might already be struggling to identify their emotional states and stressors?

    In this episode, I discuss my own experience with dysregulation and creativity and share insights from autistic blogger and therapist Karen Sheriff and podcaster and neuropsychologist Dr. Theresa Regan.

    The specific media resources mentioned in this episode are:

    The dichotomy of being an autistic creator (Sheriff)

    Powerful Self-Care: Awareness of the Internal (Reagan)

    To read about the changes I made as a direct result of my dysregulation event please see What Writing on the Spectrum Means to Me

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    17 分