Episode 34 - Building a Culture of Trust

You. Are. Your Culture. Whether in your family, workplace, social circles, or place of worship. How you, as a leader, show up and respond. That is your culture. Not the mission statement on the wall. (Or refrigerator) YOU. You are your culture. Whether the situations are stressful or celebratory, your response to those situations determines the culture you are building. The culture your people are experiencing. We can try hard, write mission statements, stick banners of “who we are” on cabinet doors and in workplace break rooms. But the true builder of a culture is a leader’s habits, character, and values in action. In other words...Culture = Habits + Character + Values (x Action) Who do people know you to be? What do people believe will happen if they…

-Take a risk

-Speak up

-Fail

In this episode you will learn how to become a student of your own culture so you can enhance it, change it, or correct it. I hope you will join us and learn how to audit your own culture so you can make it the best possible place for people to be. A place people want to be. Choose to be. Even when times are rough and rocky.

Learning with you on the Journey,

Brenda

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Brenda is a Texas girl who loves God and people and big skies and great coffee. She is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power–with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend. She is also a speaker, author, mediator, and coach...helping people discover, embrace, and live out their God-given superpowers.

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https://loudisnotalanguage.com/

https://brendaharkins.com/

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Episode 33 - Faith in the Fearful and Fragile with Brent Butler

If you have ever had life throw you a curve ball, this episode is for you. Have you ever experienced fear from life, health, relationships, or career being out of your control? Fear from what your mind imagines might happen? Have you ever fragile in areas where you have always known strength? Brent Butler understands. He is a man of faith, having been in ministry (including senior pastor, worship pastor, and associate pastor) for over 25 years. Yet an unexpected diagnosis left him reeling with fear about his relationships, his provision, his loss of control, and more. His journey has launched a platform for greater impact than he ever imagined. Join us around the table today as Brent shares what it is like to:

• Live in the tension of faith and unanswered prayer
• Experience God’s presence in the suffering vs. His removal of it
• Stay connected to God’s heart during sickness, fear, and anger

Come hear the difference between preaching a sermon and your life being a sermon. We all have those stories. The ones that brought fear, uncertainty, confusion, etc...Brent Butler’s story speaks to yours as well. Listen and be inspired to live a life of victory anyway. Your life is a sermon no one else can preach.

For any who would like to reach out to Brent, here are some ways to do that:

https://www.brentbutlerjr.com

https://linktr.ee/brentbutlerJr

admin@brentbutlerjr.com

Enjoy the Journey!

Brenda

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Brenda is a Texas girl who loves God and people and big skies and great coffee. She is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power–with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend. She is also a speaker, author, mediator, and coach...helping people discover, embrace, and live out their God-given superpowers.

Check out the websites:

https://loudisnotalanguage.com/

https://brendaharkins.com/

Follow on socials:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/

Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/

Podcast music from: https://app.soundstripe.com/

Produced by KB Podcasts

Episode 32 Show Notes: Relational Intelligence - How to Enter Tense Conversations

Last episode we talked about how to connect with others in an authentic way. It’s great to know how to do that. In this episode I share 3 ways to actually enter those tense conversations. Choosing to initiate a conversation for the purpose of connecting with someone we already have some tension with takes courage. It’s hard to know how to get that conversation started. Do we say, “Hey! We need to talk.” Probably not. Depending on the personalities involved, though... maybe. More times than not, that gets people’s defenses up, though. So how do we initiate that? The short version is:

1. Gather your courage and state the obvious with kindness.
2. Ask questions that invite depth vs. autopilot responses.
3. Meet people where they are.

Join me in this episode as we talk more about this around the table.

Enjoy the Journey!

Brenda

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Brenda is a Texas girl who loves God and people and big skies and great coffee. She is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power–with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend. She is also a speaker, author, mediator, and coach...helping people discover, embrace, and live out their God-given superpowers.

Check out the websites:

https://loudisnotalanguage.com/

https://brendaharkins.com/

Follow on socials:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/

Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/

Podcast music from: https://app.soundstripe.com/

Produced by KB Podcasts