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What secrets should you actually keep in marriage? Not the harmful, relationship-damaging kind, but the sacred boundaries that protect your union.

The discussion opens with a powerful story about a doctor married to a construction worker who explained her profound perspective: "I've never judged my husband by the size of his purse, but rather by the size of his purpose in my life." This wisdom sets the foundation for understanding that value in marriage transcends financial status.

We explore seven areas where privacy strengthens rather than harms your relationship: protecting intimacy, keeping disagreements private, handling family issues discretely, approaching health problems with wisdom, not dwelling on past regrets, honoring each other's insecurities, and keeping romantic moments sacred.

Scripture guides each principle, from Hebrews 13:4 reminding us that "marriage should be honored by all and the marriage bed kept pure" to Ephesians 4:26 instructing "in your anger do not sin; do not let the sun go down while you are still angry." We emphasize the critical distinction that healthy boundaries aren't about hiding things from your spouse, but rather the two of you protecting your relationship together.

Along the way, we tackle practical questions. When should you seek outside help? Every couple needs one trusted, spiritually mature couple that both spouses agree can offer counsel when needed. What constitutes oversharing on social media? How do you balance accountability with privacy?

The conversation weaves personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical advice for couples navigating these waters. Whether you're newlywed or celebrating decades together, these principles of sacred privacy will strengthen your bond and deepen your trust.

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Season 3 intro done by Carolena

Season 3 Outro done by Carolena

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