What if your desire isn’t gone—it’s just been buried under shame, obligation, and disconnection from your body? And what if reclaiming your sexuality didn’t have to follow the rules you were taught?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with intimacy and relationship guide Andre Lazarus for a conversation that is both expansive and deeply grounding. We talk about the journey of reconnecting with your erotic self after divorce, what healthy non-monogamy actually looks like, and how to create a relationship with pleasure that centers your body, your truth, and your joy.

Whether you’re single, dating again, or just beginning to ask, “What do I want?”—this conversation is an open door to self-exploration. Andre shares tools for building safety in the body, rewriting your sexual story, and cultivating authentic connection, whether in monogamous or alternative partnerships.

Resources Mentioned:

• How to Master Masculinity and Become the Kind of Man She Craves: https://opentomore.mykajabi.com/masterclass
• Sign up for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold
• Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/

What We Discuss:

• Why women often feel disconnected from their bodies post-divorce
• How nervous system safety influences your relationship to pleasure
• The difference between shame and embodied curiosity
• What ethical non-monogamy actually looks like
• Creating intentional erotic containers
• Reclaiming your eroticism—whether solo or partnered

Find more from Andre Lazarus:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingcloserwithandre/

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com