In this insightful episode, Gina and Don Grothoff dive into the subtle yet powerful ways language shapes our thoughts, relationships, and emotional well-being. They explore 10 common words and phrases that can sneak negativity or pressure into our conversations—and offer more mindful, empowering alternatives.

They are: Should, Always, Never, Why, But, Ought, Must, Whatever, Gotto, Haveto

🔄 Replace “should” with “wish”
🧭 Shift “always” to “there are times”
🔄 Trade “never” for “sometimes”
🔍 Ask “what” instead of “why”
⚖️ Swap “but” with “the problem is…”
💬 Use “I would prefer” instead of “ought”
💡 Try “it is important to consider” in place of “must”
🗣️ Say “it is your choice” rather than “whatever”
💸 Turn “gotta” into “I am finding ways to…”
🕒 Reframe “have to” as “I am doing my best to…”

Through practical examples and personal reflections, Don and Gina reveal how simple changes in word choice can reduce conflict, foster connection, and shift your mindset toward growth and compassion.

🌟 Whether you're parenting, partnering, or working on your own self-talk, this episode offers tools to create a more conscious and kind way of communicating.

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