The Comparison Trap: Why You're Not Falling Behind, You're Just On Your Timeline

If you've ever scrolled through someone else's perfect grid and thought, "What am I even doing with my life?" — this episode is your spiritual slap and strategic wake-up call. Christina and Joe unpack the sneaky ways comparison kills creativity, zaps joy, and fuels burnout (with a few detours into aliens, sloths, and a pen15 coloring book 🤷‍♀️). From historical rabbit holes to spiritual downloads and marketing mindset shifts, we’re hitting every layer of this identity-sucking pattern and showing you how to break free — with a side of ridiculous banter and actually good advice.

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Recommendations:

📚 The River of Doubt by Teddy Roosevelt

🎙️ Diary of a CEO Podcast

🎙️ Tony Robbins on The Him & Her Show Podcast

🖍️ Pen15 Coloring Book (no, seriously) @HappyPeensColoringBook

🎤 @ModernAlchemyPodcast

💎 Joe → @joethecreator

💕 Christina → @ChristinaNikols

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00:00 Introduction and Setup

03:02 The Power of Comparison

06:35 Exploring Superpowers and Relationships

09:35 Historical Perspectives and Personal Anecdotes

10:30 Exploring Alien Beauty Standards

11:20 The Thief of Joy: Comparison in Life

13:27 Reference Anxiety: The Dangers of Comparison

16:59 Social Media's Role in Comparison

17:28 The Illusion of Perfection on Social Media

34:08 Creativity Drain: The Cost of Comparison

35:27 The Importance of Originality and Timing

38:25 The Power of Vulnerability in Success

41:13 The Dangers of Comparison in the Workplace

47:36 Sales Strategies and Building Relationships

55:03 The Trap of Social Comparison

01:04:20 Redirecting Energy Towards Personal Growth