There’s a war happening inside each of us — and most of the time, no one else sees it.

In this solo episode, I open up about the unseen battles that shape who we become. From personal stories of depression, self-doubt, and infertility to practical tools rooted in Stoic philosophy and faith, this episode is a deeply honest reflection on what it means to keep going when no one’s watching, and no one’s cheering.

I explore how the hardest fights are often silent. There’s no crowd. No validation. Just you… and the voice that tells you to quit.

We’ll talk about:

• Why internal struggles are more dangerous than we think
• The toxic stories we tell ourselves, and how to rewrite them
• What the Stoics teach us about control, identity, and resilience
• How fitness, journaling, discipline, and faith help build unshakable character
• Why infertility shook my identity, and how my wife and I are walking through it

This episode isn’t about pretending everything’s okay. It’s about facing the truth, building real self-respect, and understanding that some of the most transformational growth happens in the dark — long before anyone else sees the light.

If you're in the middle of something hard, I hope this reminds you: you’re not broken. You’re becoming.

Listen now and keep getting after it — even when it’s quiet.

–––––––––––––––––-

Website: Keepgettingafterit.com
Follow on X: @bcrossell
Subscribe on YouTube: @gettingafteritpodcast
Follow on Instagram: @bcrossell
Follow on TikTok: gettingafterit_podcast

I hope today’s episode sparked something within you to pursue your dreams and unlock your true potential. If you found value in it, consider sharing it with someone who might need that same push.

Getting After It is for those who. want to silence their self-doubt. Refuse to be owned by comfort. Understand their limits are man-made and breakable. We live in a time of constant comparison. Social media drowns us in highlight reels and overnight success stories. But what most people don’t see is the grit behind it all. The reps. The quiet mornings. The sacrifices. The failures.

You are just getting started.

Keep Getting After It.

Send us a text