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Are marathons really easy? And why does one comment about running cause so much outrage online?

In this episode of the 12 Months to Marathon Podcast, I'm discussing the reaction to Spencer Matthews' controversial comments about marathon running — and why I think the running community might be missing the bigger picture.

When Spencer suggested that completing a marathon is relatively easy compared with running one quickly, social media erupted. But was he actually dismissing slower runners, or was his message taken out of context?

For me, this raises two much bigger issues: the dangers of comparison and our increasing tendency to take everything personally online.

In this episode, I explore:

• What Spencer Matthews may have meant when he described marathons as easy.
• Why marathon difficulty is relative to the individual.
• How comparing ourselves with faster runners can undermine our achievements.
• Why calling yourself a "slow runner" can become a limiting belief.
• The difference between your running performance and your identity.
• Why there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to become faster.
• How social media outrage and running snobbery are affecting the running community.
• Why curiosity, consistency, and focusing on your own progress are far more productive than comparing yourself with others.

I also share some of my own experiences with comparison, including how I've sometimes struggled to appreciate my achievements despite running sub-three-hour marathons.

Your marathon time is information. It isn't a measure of your worth as a person.

Whether you run a three-hour marathon, a six-hour marathon or you're preparing for your very first 26.2 miles, your journey belongs to you.

We can disagree with somebody's opinion without turning it into a personal attack. And we can celebrate our own achievements without needing to diminish somebody else's.

Stop comparing yourself with everybody else. Start getting curious about what you're capable of.

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We all know running is good for us. But does running always make us happy? What happens when something we love starts becoming another source of pressure?

In this episode of the 12 Months to Marathon Podcast, I'm joined by Pete Goldring, co-founder of Happystride and host of the Running Makes Me Happy podcast, for a conversation about running, mental health, community and finding enjoyment beyond PBs and race times.

Pete has been running for 17 years, completing everything from 5Ks to 100-mile ultramarathons. He's also a four-time sub-three-hour marathon runner, with a PB of 2:56. But his relationship with running has changed considerably over the years.

We discuss:

• Why running can improve our mental health without necessarily making us happy all the time.
• The pressure of chasing marathon PBs and knowing when we've pushed too far.
• Why ultrarunning offers a different experience from road racing.
• Social media, Strava, Garmin and becoming overly attached to running data.
• Why your running performance shouldn't define your identity.
• The story behind Happystride and its commitment to supporting mental health charities.
• How strength training is helping Pete rediscover his running potential in his 40s.
• The importance of community, consistency and celebrating every runner's achievements.
• Why finishing times matter less than we sometimes think.

We also share our remarkably similar marathon PBs, discuss the emotional comedown after achieving a major running goal, and explore whether we'd still run as much if nobody could see our results.

There's nothing wrong with wanting to run faster, achieve a PB or push your limits. But running should add something to your life, not become another way of measuring your worth.

Whether you're training for your first marathon, chasing a faster time or simply trying to rediscover your love of running, this episode is a reminder of why we started in the first place.

Follow Pete and Happystride:

• Instagram: @petegoldie
• Instagram: @happystride
• Podcast: Running Makes Me Happy

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Is it ever too late to start running? And what happens when you finally decide to put yourself first?

In this episode, I'm joined by Nicola Williams, founder of the Over 40s Running Club, who started running at 44 after years of struggling with her weight, confidence, and health.

What began as a decision to improve her health soon became something much bigger. Inspired by a close friend's terminal cancer diagnosis, Nicola went from struggling through the first minute of Couch to 5K to completing half marathons and building a supportive community for women discovering running later in life.

We discuss:

• Starting running in your 40s when you've never considered yourself a runner.
• Losing over three stone and rebuilding confidence.
• The emotional and mental health benefits of running.
• Why comparison, body image and social media can hold runners back.
• The value of community, particularly for women over 40.
• Why run-walk strategies are a perfectly valid way to complete a marathon.
• Finding time for yourself alongside work, family and everyday responsibilities.
• Why enjoying running matters more than impressing other people.

Nicola also shares her experiences with PMDD, the challenges of learning to like herself, and her plans to tackle the 2027 London Marathon using a run-walk strategy.

This is a conversation about much more than running. It's about confidence, perspective, community, and discovering what you're capable of at an age when some people believe their best years are behind them.

You don't need to be fast. You don't need to look like a runner. And you certainly don't need to have started in your twenties.

You just need somewhere to begin.

Follow Nicola on Instagram: @over40srunningclub

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