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12: Arrogance vs Confidence

12: Arrogance vs Confidence

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 What’s the difference between arrogance and confidence? As it turns out, they couldn’t be more different.We have feelings on this topic - BIG feelings. And we’re not holding back.In this episode, we dive into what society teaches many of us about being proud of ourselves (but not too proud), how self-esteem (or a lack thereof) sets the stage, and on the importance of practicing saying “thank you” when receiving compliments (even if we feel bad about accepting them.)What do you think we can do to encourage more confidence in ourselves and each other? We’d love to hear your thoughts.Want more of Lara and Rowan?Rowan is available for speaking engagements, and Lara has coaching spots available.TranscriptPlease note, we don’t carefully review these transcripts so there may be some errors.[00:00:00] Rowan: Why do you think we look at somebody posting pictures of themselves, and we think that is an arrogant, narcissistic person and not like, oh, hey, good for that guy. He looks good today. he's smiling, he is happy and enjoying his life.I'm happy for him, . Hey there, another week, another topic. I'm Rowan.And I'm Laraand you're with us on unboxing It. And this week we have got a doozy. i'm really excited to talk about this because I feel like I have a lot of experience with it and it is the difference between arrogance and confidence.It's a big one, right?[00:01:03] Lara: It is, and it's something I talk to a lot of people about as well, and I have a lot of feelings and opinions about, so we're gonna have fun with it.[00:01:10] Rowan: So. I have been online and you have been online for a very long time. Longer than I think either of us wanna admit, and probably more frequently than either of us would like to admit at one point or another. And one of the things that I have noticed is there have been trends. There have been trends around things like. Is it cool to take selfies or is it not cool to take selfies? How much should you talk about yourself? And, what do all these things say about you as a person? And those are just online examples, but we all know that there are some people out there who show off a lot.There are other people who maybe are a little quieter and. Still have no problem talking about themselves. And I think there's a difference between what we perceive as arrogance and what is actually arrogance and what we perceive as confidence and what is actually confidence in your opinion, Lara, what do you think the main difference is?And then I'm gonna give my own,[00:02:17] Lara: well, I think it's more complicated than that. So I'm gonna back it up a little bit. Ooh. And then we'll go beyond that. I do think that arrogance and confidence get mixed up. A lot. And I think that like so many other things we talk about, there is a difference between what we say they are and then how people behave when it comes to those things.So if people say it's really important to be confident, but then they see somebody talking about what they do well, they're like, you are being arrogant. And you're like, actually I think that person's being confident. So part of the. I don't know if it's a problem, but it is a challenge. Is that what people say you're doing?can be sort of turned into something bad because it makes them uncomfortable because people wish, like they're jealous, I think to some extent, right? Like I wish I could tell people I was great, but I'm not. Right. Or like, some of the things we've been told to stay small, and I think Canadians have this even more.Apparently Canadians and Australians are sort of in the same boat. But the whole tall poppy syndrome, I don't know if you've heard that. Like you're not supposed to stand out. If you stand out, you're being I don't know if the word bad, but you're being arrogant.You're being something that we don't like.[00:03:37] Rowan: You're showing off.[00:03:38] Lara: Yeah. Right. But showing off shouldn't show off, which means that we stop allowing ourselves to think we're good at things like we have been taught to not think we're good at things. So to me, confidence is believing that you're good at something, believing that you're able to do something, being, proud of what you're doing. Arrogance is probably like, you're not really good at it, but you're like walking around telling everybody you are like, there's like this, bigger, I'm trying to make people believe something that's not true, versus I simply own that I'm good at something and it's okay for me to talk about it sometimes.[00:04:17] Rowan: Hmm hmm. That's a good perspective for sure. I went really deep into it for my last book, one sunny Afternoon. I'm not gonna pull the book out and search for it right now, but I think that would've required some planning, which I did not do. The amount of times we just hop on a call and go, okay, what are we talking about today?And we just go, which is what we plan to do in its own way because it's authentic, right? We have these, like, fresh ...
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