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#111 Why People Pleasing is Killing Your Coaching Impact – with Chris Marr

#111 Why People Pleasing is Killing Your Coaching Impact – with Chris Marr

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In this powerful episode, Finola Howard is joined by Chris Marr, coach, author of Become An Authoritative Coach, and co-founder of The Authoritative Coach platform. Together, they unravel why people pleasing may be the single biggest barrier holding coaches—and their clients—back from true transformation. Chris shares his deeply personal journey of moving from fear-based communication to grounded confidence, and how the stoic philosophy and deliberate practice helped him stop playing small. This episode is a goldmine for coaches, creatives, and consultants who are ready to claim their space, challenge their clients, and stop hiding behind the need to be liked. 🎯 In this episode, you’ll learn: Why people pleasing stifles transformation—and what to do about it. The professional power of being assertive and direct (without being unkind). Why many coaches confuse knowledge with skill—and how to bridge that gap. How journaling, Stoic philosophy, and daily intention-setting can transform your impact. The difference between being in control vs. having agency—and how the latter unlocks your best work. How to extract maximum value from every experience (and why most people don’t). 🔥 Standout Quote from Chris Marr: “If you’re not naming what’s really holding your client back, who will? Your silence could be costing them their breakthrough.” 🎁 Giveaway Alert: Want to win a copy of Chris's book? Comment on your favourite platform with: The most valuable insight you took from the episode. The one action you’re committed to taking as a result. 🕰️ Episode Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Intro: Why Communication Skills Are a Coach’s Superpower Chris Marr opens with a powerful statement about why underdeveloped communication skills are the root of most coaching challenges. 02:30 – Meet Chris Marr: Author, Coach & Founder of The Authoritative Coach Finola introduces Chris and his book Become An Authoritative Coach, which calls coaches to stop people pleasing and start leading. 03:45 – The Cost of Being Liked: How People Pleasing Holds Coaches Back Chris unpacks why the need to be liked isn't just a personal issue—it directly impacts client outcomes and business success. 06:40 – Ruinous Empathy: Why Caring Too Much Hurts Client Progress Discover the concept of “ruinous empathy” and how many coaches unintentionally enable stagnation by avoiding difficult conversations. 09:20 – What It Really Means to Be a Professional Coach Finola and Chris explore what separates amateur coaching from professional, transformative leadership. 12:30 – Grounded Confidence vs. Ego in Coaching Learn how to build grounded confidence rooted in skill—not ego or imposter syndrome. 16:15 – Skill Acquisition Over Certifications: The Path to Authority Chris explains why more qualifications aren’t the answer—deliberate practice and coaching reps are. 21:30 – Marketing Avoidance: The Hidden Fear Behind Constant Learning Why some coaches keep studying as a way to delay visibility and action. 25:10 – The Impact of Working with Marcus Sheridan & “They Ask You Answer” Chris reflects on his experience coaching with Marcus Sheridan and scaling impact through value-based communication. 30:00 – Stoic Wisdom for Coaches: Control, Agency & Personal Mastery A deep dive into how Stoic philosophy shaped Chris’s coaching mindset and how it can help others cultivate resilience and presence. 35:45 – Daily Practices for Self-Leadership and Emotional Clarity From journaling and morning pages to setting clear intentions—Chris shares the tools he uses daily to lead himself and others better. 41:30 – Empowering Clients to Solve Their Own Problems Learn why real transformation happens when clients take agency—and how coaches can enable this without creating dependence. 44:05 – Final Thoughts + Book Giveaway Chris and Finola wrap with a challenge: What one change will you make today that leads you toward transformation? 🧠 Connect with Chris Marr: LinkedIn – Chris Marr Learn more at The Authoritative Coach 🔗 Connect with Finola Howard: https://www.finolahoward.com/book https://www.linkedin.com/in/finolahoward/ https://www.instagram.com/thisisfinolahoward https://www.facebook.com/thisisfinolahoward https://www.youtube.com/@ThisIsFinolaHoward ❤️ Enjoyed this episode? Please rate, review, and share it! It helps amplify voices like Chris’s and supports this podcast's mission. Leave a review at lovethepodcast.com/yourtruthshared

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