What’s something that Gabby has done but isn’t even on Jordan’s radar? Get married. Join us as we scratch the surface on one of the most hyped up types of relationship in society and culture (in the style of blind reaction by Jordan). Because, after all, you can’t have good mental health without good, positive relationships.

But is this one really that different from a normal romantic relationship? Does it change anything? A ring won’t make them stay, and a piece of paper certainly won’t keep them from cheating. So what’s the point really? Explore what marriage means to us— why Kareem ultimately chose to put the ring on Gabby’s finger, what led to that decision. And where Jordan’s head is at in terms of now vs. where she thinks it needs to be before heading down the aisle.

Marriage is something different for everyone. For you, is it a deadline? Is it insurance? Is it for love, for the kids you’ll gain from it? Or maybe God told you to? What’s your reasoning? We want to know! So please do let us know by DMing us on Instagram @thepositivepessimistpod, or reaching out to thepositivepessimistpod@gmail.com. And feel free to leave us a review on your favorite streaming platform!!

P.S. Also let us know how you like our new segment, our Paradoxical Check-In! I, Jordan, am advising you also to listen to the podcast I talk about in my check-in this week, The Mel Robbins Podcast. If you like our podcast, you'll like hers 100x more. I strive to be on her level, lols. But in all actuality, if you resonated with my solo episode a couple weeks ago, this specific episode I'm linking is responsible in large part for getting me out of my funk!!

https://www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-3