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"[H]onest, warm, and judgment-free...this is essential for all parents, from those first expecting to empty nesters. It's never too early or too late to improve the relationship with your children, and, as the title suggests, they'll be glad you did." (Booklist starred review)

"Healing from, and learning not to perpetuate, difficult upbringings is the linchpin of this practical, self-care-centered parenting guide...Perry’s kind but professional tone results in a helpful manual that will appeal to new parents who want an expert on board as they take the time to be reflective in their parenting." (Publishers Weekly)

"It is hard to read fast, not just because Perry’s text is punctuated by exercises...but because it prompts so many realisations, or insights, or clearly names things that have until now existed just beyond one’s awareness. And it provides tools, straightforward and manageable if not always easy, that can be implemented at once. I am grateful for it." (The Guardian UK)

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"A beautifully comprehensive look at what it might mean to be a sane and emotionally intelligent parent...hugely warm, wise, hopeful and encouraging." (Alain de Botton, author of How Proust Can Change Your Life)

Instant number one Sunday Times best seller

Every parent wants their child to be happy, and every parent wants to avoid screwing them up (the way their parents did!). But how do you do that?

In this absorbing, clever, and warm book, renowned psychotherapist Philippa Perry tells us what really matters and what behavior it is important to avoid - the vital dos and don'ts of parenting.

Her approach begins with parents themselves and their own psychological make-up and history - and how that in turn influences one's parenting.

Instead of mapping out the "perfect" plan, Perry offers a big-picture look at the elements that lead to good parent-child relationships. This refreshing judgement-free book will help you to:

  • Understand how your own upbringing may affect your parenting
  • Accept that you will make mistakes and learn what you can do about them
  • Break negative cycles and patterns
  • Handle your own and child's feelings
  • Understand what different behaviors communicate

Full of sage and sane advice, The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read is one every parent will want to hear and every child will wish their parents had.

A Pamela Dorman Books/Viking Life title

©2020 Philippa Perry (P)2020 Penguin Audio

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  • Nate
  • 2020/04/18

dreadful

Let me just spare you from this overly condescending and judgmental book. Unless you are wealthy and can afford to have a happy bubbly stay at home mom and lots of extended family who rally around you with money and resources, you're probably not going to live up to the authors idea of what a parent i.e. mommy, should be. She even has the audacity to start sentences with "not to be judgmental, but". And when she starts doing voices to narrate different persons...o my, my brain just shrinks. Bottom line, she is pro attachment which is not the same as a secure relationship with you child which can be achieved through active listening etc. etc. You don't need your in law to pay rent for a year, and you don't need to go to hotels for the weekend to spend a minimum of 24 hours one on one with your child.

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  • 匿名
  • 2020/10/04

Perfect!

The title says it all! This book is a weapon. Easily can listen to it over and over and every time get something out of it. Thank you Philippa!

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  • james m.
  • 2021/01/07

very insightful

I loved the book, I was on the fence when I first saw it but I'm really glad I gave it a shot. when it's a parenting book you never really know if it's going to be a "language" that you can understand and continue with, but this book was so relatable and definitely made me see the things that I may need to work on and work with as I create a bond with my son. maybe eventually mend a bond with my wife.

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  • Kaelah white
  • 2020/12/15

a must read

I really liked this book and enjoyed the narrative. I benefited from the information that this book provided and immediately noticed a shift in my children and my relationship.

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  • Oly
  • 2020/05/06

Life changing

This book forever changed my relationship with my child for better. I wish I had read it earlier but I am so grateful that I came across it. I am able to forgive myself, understand myself and understand my child, I am able not to give up and keep trying to be a better parent to my child and a better person in general. Thank you Philippa Perry for writing this book. It’s a treasure.