“What does ‘right-relation’ look like day-to-day with people, land, and the unseen?” — Tara, NM|

Right-relation is not a rulebook; it is a posture held in four directions—self, others, land, and the unseen. Imagine a hoop around you. When one arc is ignored, the whole circle creaks. When each is tended, the wheel rolls true.

With self: speak to yourself as you would to a child you love—firmly, kindly, without contempt. Keep one promise to your body daily: water, breath, sleep, movement. Keep one promise to your spirit: a quiet minute, a song, a line of thanks. Right-relation within is the end of war at home.

With others: lead with consent and reciprocity. Ask before advising. Offer help that keeps dignity intact. Practice a three-breath pause in conflict so your words carry medicine, not poison. If you fail, repair quickly: “I see my part; here is how I will change.” Right-relation is not perfection; it is recommitment.

With land: step outside and learn the names of your neighbors—tree, bird, wind, watershed. Return something each week: picked trash, water to a root, a promise to use less and share more. Right-relation with place is not ownership; it is kinship practiced through care.

With the unseen: approach with humility. If you draw runes or pray, begin with gratitude, proceed with consent, and end with action that honors what you heard. Do not demand signs to bypass responsibility. Right-relation in the spirit asks, “What is mine to do next?” and then does it.

When the circle wobbles, choose one quadrant and take a small step. Feed the body, apologize to a friend, pour water for the birch, light a candle and listen. The hoop tightens with practice. In time, the posture becomes habit; the habit becomes a way. Then even your ordinary errands will leave a faint glow behind you, the mark of a person traveling in good relation.

"Be Well my Friends,

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