Shame often sneaks in as “I should be different” or “I’m not enough.” In this episode, Jacquelyn Emery explores how to let go of those heavy “shoulds,” stop shaming ourselves for being human, and choose curiosity over criticism. Learn how to shift self-talk into compassion, embrace your true value, and step confidently into the driver’s seat of your life.

Key takeaways to listen for

• How to turn inward when you feel triggered instead of blaming outward

• The “purse on the hook” analogy for carrying and setting down shame, anxiety, or neediness

• Why replacing shame requires clarity on what you want instead

• Turning up the volume on your true self instead of trying to change the station

• Hidden costs of measuring yourself by others’ standards

Resources mentioned in this episode

• Ep14: Embrace An Unapologetic Self-Love for an Authentically Empowered Life with Jacquelyn Emery | Apple Podcasts

About Jacquelyn Emery

Jacquelyn Emery is a certified Life Coach who works with clients to increase emotional well-being, energy, and motivation. She specializes in helping busy women with time management, life balance, and building the confidence to live authentically. Through her signature Life in the Driver’s Seat coaching program, Jacquelyn empowers clients to step out of autopilot and take intentional control of their lives.

Connect with Jacquelyn

• Website: Jacquelyn Emery Coaching

• Podcasts: Life in the Driver’s Seat | Spotify

• LinkedIn: Jacquelyn Emery

• Instagram: @jacquelynemery

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