"Overcoming Imposter Syndrome," defines imposter syndrome as a psychological pattern causing people to doubt their accomplishments and fear their own abilities, leading to self-doubt and anxiety. Coach Sapphire Starr & Coach Kyle McCloud discuss how societal conditioning, particularly for certain groups, can lead to diminishing one's own achievements, often comparing oneself to others.

They propose several strategies for overcoming imposter syndrome:

• Affirmations: Using positive statements to counteract negative self-talk, even if the affirmations initially feel far from current beliefs. They suggest a gradual approach, building momentum with affirmations that are slightly higher than current thoughts but still resonate as true.
• Vulnerability with others: Having a trusted person in your life who can offer a "reality check" and empathize without judgment.
• Self-reality check (Dark Letter): A personal journaling technique where one writes down all negative thoughts and emotions (often directed at someone else), then reframes and reality-checks those thoughts within the same letter before deleting it. This process helps to release negative feelings without impacting others.
• The Three C's Strategy:

• 1. Consciousness/Acknowledging: Recognizing negative thoughts but not dwelling on them.
  2. Challenging: Questioning the validity of self-doubts and reframing them with evidence of past accomplishments.
  3. Celebrating: Actively acknowledging and celebrating wins, no matter how small, and learning to receive compliments without diminishing them.

Sapphire & Kyle also emphasize the importance of being comfortable with "not knowing everything" and accepting that it's okay to be incorrect. They conclude by discussing the profound impact of shifting from doubt to belief, and the freedom that comes from letting go of attachments to how things "should" happen, allowing for more possibilities and joy in life.