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EP#197: How to Stop Having The Same Fights Over & Over Again with Andrea Dindinger

EP#197: How to Stop Having The Same Fights Over & Over Again with Andrea Dindinger

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In this episode of The Open Bedroom Podcast, I talk with Andrea Dindinger, a veteran marriage and family therapist, about why couples have the same arguments repeatedly—often over small issues like running late or household chores. Andrea explains these fights usually mask deeper needs for love, respect, and connection. We discuss relationship archetypes, emotional triggers, and practical tools like “bookmarking” conflicts. Our conversation offers actionable advice for breaking negative cycles, improving communication, and turning recurring disagreements into opportunities for greater intimacy and understanding.Timestamps by PodSqueezeCertainly! Here are the top 10 timestamps, keeping the same format, content, and context:Sex and Money: The Roots of Power Struggles (00:00:03) Andrea discusses how sex and money are complex, power-based issues in relationships.Podcast Introduction and Guest Welcome (00:00:32) Jen introduces the podcast, Andrea’s background, and the episode’s focus on recurring fights.Why Do Couples Have the Same Fights? (00:01:07) Andrea explains why couples repeat the same arguments and the emotional needs beneath them.Common Triggers: Running Late and Household Habits (00:01:44) Discussion of typical recurring fights, like lateness and household chores, and their deeper meanings.The Loop as an Invitation for Intimacy (00:03:23) Andrea reframes recurring fights as opportunities for connection rather than blame.Breaking Down the “Running Late” Archetype (00:04:22) Jen and Andrea analyze the punctual “drill sergeant” archetype and its roots in childhood or military experiences.Emotional Layers Behind Punctuality (00:06:07) Exploring the fear, anxiety, and shame beneath anger about lateness.The “Airy Fairy” and Multitasker Archetypes (00:08:05) Discussion of the partner who is less time-focused, often multitasking or losing track of time.Disassociation and Entitlement in Time Perception (00:10:18) Andrea explains how some people disconnect from time and its social impact.How Opposites Attract in Relationships (00:10:51) Why punctual and non-punctual partners are drawn to each other and how their dynamics play out.Follow Andrea:https://www.andreadindinger.com/linkedin.com/in/andrea-dindingerhttps://www.facebook.com/AndreaDindinger/https://www.instagram.com/andreadindinger/https://www.youtube.com/@andreadindingerhttps://www.tiktok.com/@therapywithandreaLOOP BREAKER: https://enroll.andreadindinger.com/loop-breaker-landing-page-pageRELATIONSHIP REBOOT: https://enroll.andreadindinger.com/relationship-reboot-courseFollow The Open Bedroom Podcast:https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast
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