Most of us don’t actually choose how we show up — we default. In this powerful conversation, Marcy Axelrod, author of How We Choose to Show Up, joins Jess and Claude to unpack what it really means to bring your whole self to work and life.

From the science of empathy and psychological safety to simple reset tools you can try today, Marcy shares why “just showing up” isn’t enough — and how shifting into “truly showing up” changes everything.

✨ In this episode you’ll learn:

• Why authenticity at work is more than a buzzword
• The science behind empathy and connection
• Reset tools like breathwork and “tracing a 3” to manage stress
• How one café story revealed the shift from judgment to compassion
• Practical ways to repair, set boundaries, and create safety in meetings
• The one daily question that expands how you choose to show up

Whether you’re a leader, teammate, or work bestie, this episode is a guide to moving from default mode into intentional, connected presence.

🔗 Connect with Marcy: choosetoshowup.com

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