Most men don’t realize they struggle with self-worth — until their marriage starts falling apart. You might not feel unworthy, but the patterns give it away: people-pleasing, shutting down, overreacting, craving validation, or collapsing when your wife pulls away.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott breaks down how hidden beliefs about worth shape your marriage, why they were never about your wife, and how to heal them with The Secure Husband Process.

What you’ll learn in this video:
✔️ How subconscious self-worth wounds drive conflict and disconnection
✔️ Why rejection feels crushing even when it’s small
✔️ How to notice the ways you’ve been abandoning yourself
✔️ The difference between fake confidence and true worth
✔️ How to meet the boy inside who thought he had to earn love
✔️ Why her behavior doesn’t determine your value
✔️ Steps to reclaim your self-respect and embody real strength

Your worth doesn’t come from her attention, her approval, or her affection. It comes from how you show up for yourself. Once you stop outsourcing your value, you stop collapsing under rejection and start becoming the man you respect.

👉 Want support in this process? Sign up for a free 30-minute consultation at securehusband.com
. No sales pitch, no pressure — just a real conversation about what’s happening in your marriage and how coaching might help.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

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