We explore the concept of "African Trauma Syndrome" – the unique psychological and emotional challenges experienced by children across African cultures shaped by cultural expectations and social norms. Ayo, a young Gen Z voice, joins the conversation to share authentic perspectives on how certain parenting practices impact trust and emotional wellbeing.

• Common scenarios like the "put it on my head" directive that creates confusion when taken literally by children
• Parentification – where older siblings bear disproportionate responsibility for household duties and younger siblings
• How promises of "no punishment for honesty" followed by scolding creates lasting trust issues
• Academic expectations that focus on shortcomings rather than celebrating achievements
• Cultural practices like finding stew inside ice cream containers creating expectations that things aren't what they seem
• Boundaries with strangers and the pressure to engage with unknown adults due to cultural respect norms
• The importance of acknowledging children's efforts before providing constructive feedback
• Creating balance between cultural traditions and emotional wellbeing

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