Your wife is your partner — not your therapist. Too many men put the weight of their healing on their wives, expecting comfort, validation, or emotional guidance. This creates pressure, kills attraction, and leads to distance instead of connection.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott explains why making your wife your therapist backfires and how to take responsibility for your healing in a way that builds strength, trust, and respect.

What you’ll learn in this video:
✔️ Why your wife pulls away when you make her your emotional caretaker
✔️ How the wounded inner boy drives this pattern of seeking comfort from her
✔️ Why your healing must come from you — not from her reassurance
✔️ How The Secure Husband Process helps you build strength and integrity
✔️ Steps to create a support system outside your marriage so she can be your partner, not your counselor

Brother, healing is your responsibility. When you carry your own emotional weight, you stop clinging for safety and start becoming safe — for yourself, for her, and for your marriage.

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. No sales pitch, no pressure — just a real conversation about your marriage and whether coaching could help.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

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