Dating advice for high-achieving women isn’t “follow the butterflies.” In this episode, we dismantle the lie that intense feelings equal real potential—and show you what actually predicts commitment.

You’ll walk away able to separate chemistry from compatibility, stop projecting your feelings onto him, and use a simple alignment check to protect your standards without hardening your heart.

• A no-drama filter to spot commitment-ready men using actions, not adrenaline rushes.
• How to keep standards in dating high when your feelings are loud (and your hopes are louder).
• The 3 hidden assumptions that tank momentum—and the intentional dating swaps that fix them fast.
• A post-breakup reality check that ends the closure spiral and brings your power back.

If you’re done confusing butterflies with green flags, this episode gives you the grounded roadmap to stay magnetic, keep your standards, and move toward the right man—without wasting another month on mixed signals.

ABOUT THE PODCAST

Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards.

Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.
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