In this episode of Coursen’s Corner, Spencer Coursen sits down with Erika Schultz for a raw, deeply honest conversation on love, self-worth, and intuition. Erika shares her insights on modern relationships, the cultural programming that shapes gender roles, and the power of listening to your gut. From setting boundaries in love to breaking free from societal expectations, this episode offers transformative tools for self-empowerment. Erika also discusses religion, social media illusions, and what it means to be safe as a woman in today’s world.

Whether you're navigating dating, healing from heartbreak, or simply learning to put yourself first—this episode is your permission slip to take back your power.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 - 04:28] – Introduction and defining authentic connection

- [04:28 - 08:56] – Intuition vs insecurity in relationships

- [08:56 - 13:24] – How society teaches women to suppress instinct

- [13:24 - 17:00] – “You will know when a man wants to be with you”

- [17:00 - 21:28] – Signs of clarity and confusion in dating

- [21:28 - 25:56] – How men and women experience emotional availability differently

- [25:56 - 30:24] – Can someone grow with you or do they have to grow on their own?

- [30:24 - 35:56] – Breaking free from the fantasy of potential

- [35:56 - 39:50] – Learning to be your own emotional safe space

- [39:50 - 44:09] – “Men take care of their needs first” – discussing double standards

- [44:09 - 46:40] – Societal expectations placed on women to care for others

- [46:40 - 48:31] – Keeping your own cup full and trusting your instincts

-[48:31 - 53:44] – The importance of saying “no” to protect your peace

- [53:44 - 56:21] – Social media is a highlight reel: don’t compare your backstage to someone’s front stage

- [56:21 - 58:23] – How religion and upbringing influence our relationship choices

- [58:23 - 01:03:00] – “You have to be selfish to be selfless”

- [01:03:00 - 01:07:00] – Erika shares a time she didn’t feel safe- [01:07:00 - 01:10:27] – Final reflections and the healing power

of truth

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