Every game begins with a first move. For my family, my father's threat set off years of conflict, loyalty tests, and betrayal. The Opening Gambit uncovers the roots of my family’s story — a story of power, manipulation, and deception. From the founding of the school to the first signs of abuse, this episode lays the foundation for the game my father played - a game none of us realized we were part of.

⚠️ Content Note: This episode discusses sensitive themes, including abuse, suicide, and family conflict, and may not be suitable for all listeners. If you or someone you know is struggling, call or text 988 in the U.S. for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

A true story of how one man’s lies and unchecked power tore his family apart — and my investigation into why so many chose to believe him instead of the truth.

When I was five years old, I watched my father threaten to drive off a bridge. Years later, I began to understand the truth: my father — a respected school headmaster and teacher, beloved by families and students — was not who he seemed to be.

Vassalage: Truth, Lies, and Power is a true story of how one man’s lies and unchecked power tore his family apart, and my quest to understand why so many chose to believe him instead of the truth.

Told through the very letters exchanged during my parents’ divorce, and the memories I can’t forget, this podcast reveals what happens when you challenge the one who controls the board.

⚠️ Content Note: This episode discusses sensitive themes, including abuse, suicide, and family conflict, and may not be suitable for all listeners. If you or someone you know is struggling, call or text 988 in the U.S. for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

Season 1 begins September 9, 2025.