We’re talking about the sensitive and essential topic of end-of-life options, an area many of us encounter as caregivers for family members, yet one that often leaves us searching for guidance and support.

We sit down with two expert guests: Molly McMahon Graziano, Director of Outreach for Ohio End of Life Options, and Kathleen Carmody, owner of Senior Matters Home Health Care and Consulting, a certified death Doula and dementia practitioner.

We explore the resources available for those facing terminal illness, clarify the distinctions between hospice and the evolving role of the death doula, and shed light on important legal and practical considerations.

The episode also touches on the deeply personal nature of dying. And how, with the right knowledge and support, families can honor their loved ones’ wishes while navigating the challenging end-of-life journey.

Whether you’re currently supporting someone at the end of life, considering how to start these tough conversations, or simply want to better understand the options available, this conversation offers practical insights, heartfelt stories, and a wealth of resources to help you plan with compassion and confidence.

3 Key Takeaways

Death Doulas Offer Practical & Emotional Support: Unlike hospice, death doulas can provide around-the-clock, highly personalized care for both the patient and family, addressing everything from hands-on support to legacy planning and navigating the complex emotional landscape that comes with losing a loved one.

Empowered Choices Begin with Conversation: States differ widely in what end-of-life options are available, but the most important tool is open dialogue. Family discussions, advance directives, and clear communication about wishes ensure loved ones’ preferences are heard and respected.

Proactive Planning Makes the Hardest Times Easier: Start planning before a crisis. Resources like palliative care consults, practical tools (hello, Next of Kin boxes!), and organizations like Ohio End of Life Options and national groups (e.g., Compassion & Choices) are key to navigating care, easing burdens, and ensuring dignity for everyone involved.

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Moments

00:00 "Founding Senior Matters Home Care"

06:51 "Dying with Dignity at Home"

07:33 Ohio End of Life Options Founded

11:13 Home Care's Role in End-of-Life

16:10 Support for Caregivers and Doulas

18:24 Prepared for Parental Loss

24:00 Advocating for Transparent Medical Information

28:33 "Encouraging Palliative Care Consultations"

32:28 "Clarifying U.S. Medical Aid Laws"

37:06 "Hospice Enrollment and Aid in Dying"

39:57 "Start Conversations on End-of-Life"

42:04 Planning Elder Care Options

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