Are you stubo
カートのアイテムが多すぎます
カートに追加できませんでした。
ウィッシュリストに追加できませんでした。
ほしい物リストの削除に失敗しました。
ポッドキャストのフォローに失敗しました
ポッドキャストのフォロー解除に失敗しました
Are you stubo
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Does that image of the mules describe your relationship? of course not you, but your partner!
Each trying to get their needs met. those Core Emotional Needs. Remember that Core Emotional Needs are not negotiable. They want to be met and Fight/Flight/ Freeze will play out where they have been depleted for some time. (This dynamic is all so unconscious and not readily visible).
Moving in one direction to getNeeds met, without the partner, will put tremendous strain on the relationship. Pressure increases. Conflict is apparent.
Interestingly, the other partner may not be pulling bak - as the image seems to depict. They may just be digging in just to avoid the force of the pull taking them in a direction that they do not yet want to go!
Tension in the relationship increases. Annoyance is apparent; hostility is in the air; conflict is palpable. Yet the process is working away in the unconscious and neither party may fully understand what is going on.
Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.