Welcome back to Ghosted, Gagged & Gay — the podcast where we celebrate the beautiful chaos of queer love, identity, and healing.

In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Skylar McManus — author of the LGBTQ+ graphic novel Essence, co-host of the neurodivergent podcast Mentally Tabbed Out, and a real-life agile coach helping teams (and maybe hearts) thrive.

We dive into:
🌈 What it means to unlearn the myth that queer or neurodivergent people are “too much” to love
📚 How Skylar’s graphic novel reflects his own identity, journey, and inner superheroes
🧠 The surprising ways neurodivergence shows up in how we love and communicate
💬 What 18 years of queer love — that began with a blown-off blind date — taught him about real connection
✨ Why creativity, structure, and softness can all coexist in lasting love

This episode is equal parts heartwarming and healing — a must-listen for anyone who’s ever felt too complicated to be fully loved. Spoiler: you're not.

📍Guest Links

👉 Follow Skylar on Instagram: @sedarel1

🦸‍♂️ Read Essence here

🎙 Listen to Mentally Tabbed Out here

📍Connect with Me
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