検索キーワード： 男性学

恋人がいない、女性から好意を向けられない等の苦悩は、「非モテ」という言葉によって九〇年代後半からネットを賑わせてきた。現在も「非モテ」問題は多くの男性の心を捉えて離さない。

Hidden somewhere, in nearly every major city in the world, is an underground seduction lair. And in these lairs, men trade the most devastatingly effective techniques ever invented to charm women. This is not fiction. These men really exist. They live together in houses known as Projects. And Neil Strauss, the best-selling author, spent two years living among them, using the pseudonym Style to protect his real-life identity. The result is one of the most explosive and controversial books of the year.

Power has an appearance and appearance has power. Ideally those two would line up together and the world would be full of good, masculine men who dress and look like good masculine men. But all too often, reality is something different. There are good men and strong leaders out there who dress and look like children or bums. There are awful, lazy men in the world who dress in a way that hides their vices from those around them and makes them appear better than they truly are. In an attempt to correct for these disparities, our current culture tries to rob both appearance of its power and power of its appearance - to say that the way a person dresses or looks doesn’t - or at least shouldn’t matter.

Most men today are sent off into society with a broken belief system, which they use to make choices that get them terrible results with life and women. Men have been conditioned to be the quintessential “nice guy.” They’re trained to be overly humble, kind to a fault, and that just “being themselves” is enough to attract the women of their dreams. Men are told to believe that conventional masculinity is toxic, and to put women ahead of their own interests, passions, and purpose.

Everyone needs to love and be loved - even men. But to know love, men must be able to look at the ways that patriarchal culture keeps them from knowing themselves, from being in touch with their feelings, from loving. In The Will to Change, bell hooks gets to the heart of the matter and shows men how to express the emotions that are a fundamental part of who they are - whatever their age, marital status, ethnicity, or sexual orientation.

Realizing a good life is almost always defined in material terms, typified by individuals (usually men) who have considerable wealth. But classed, gendered and racialized social supports enable the “self-made man.” Instead, this book turns to Indigenous knowledge about realizing a good life to explore how marginalized men endeavour to overcome systemic inequalities in their efforts to achieve wholeness, balance, connection, harmony and healing.

When Max Dickins decided to propose to his girlfriend, he realised there was no one he could call on to be his best man. He quickly learned that that he wasn’t the only man struggling with friendships. For decades, countless studies from across the world have confirmed that men have fewer close friends than women–and the problem gets worse the older men get. But what goes wrong? And what can men do about it? Dickins is going to find out. His funny and charmingly candid search takes him to the doors of world-leading experts.

High school and the difficult terrain of sexuality and gender identity are brilliantly explored in this smart, incisive ethnography. Based on 18 months of fieldwork in a racially diverse working-class high school, Dude, You're a Fag sheds new light on masculinity both as a field of meaning and as a set of social practices. C. J. Pascoe's unorthodox approach analyzes masculinity as not only a gendered process, but also a sexual one.

Once upon a time Martians and Venusians met, fell in love, and had happy relationships together because they respected and accepted their differences. Then they came to Earth and amnesia set in: They forgot they were from different planets.

Rarely has there been a more confusing time to be a man. This uncertainty has spawned an array of bizarre and harmful underground subcultures, collectively known as the manosphere, as men search for new forms of belonging. In Lost Boys, James Bloodworth delves into these underground worlds and asks where have they come from? Why are so many men susceptible to the sinister beliefs these groups promote? What does the emergence of these communities say about Western society? And what can we do about it?

In Regency England the eldest son usually inherited almost everything—while his younger brothers, left with little inheritance, had to make a crucial decision: What should they do to make an independent living? Historian Rory Muir weaves together the stories of many obscure and well-known young men of good family but small fortune, shedding light on an overlooked aspect of Regency society. This is the first scholarly yet accessible exploration of the lifestyle and prospects of these younger sons.

Después de su libro No son micro. Machismos cotidianos, Eréndira Derbez y Claudia de la Garza regresan con Mapas corporales, en el que proponen una aproximación a distintas partes del cuerpo en diversas culturas y épocas para poner en entredicho esas normas sociales que nos han construido durante años para, precisamente, desmantelarlas y poder resignificar cada una de estas inscripciones.

"Atenție, nelegiuiții pe două roți nu mai sunt la porțile orașului! Sunt chiar printre noi!" Așa ar fi sunat titlul vreunui ziar local din America anilor 1960 după ce Hell’s Angels ar fi dat năvală în oraș, doar ca să se distreze în stilul lor caracteristic: motoare, raiduri, femei, droguri și bere. Mituri, exagerări sau adevăruri îngrozitoare? Prejudecăți sau fapte dovedite? Ziariștii îi adorau pentru că le ofereau subiecte de scandal, iar publicul era fascinat de aerul lor amenințător și, într-un fel, misterios de răzvrătiți și antieroi neînțeleși.

Masculinity today is a mess. One minute you’re told to “man up,” the next, to be more sensitive. Speak up, but don’t offend. Lead, but don’t dominate. Be bold, but stay agreeable. And if you’ve ever felt stuck in the middle of all that—you’re not the only one. Most advice just adds to the confusion. This audiobook cuts through it. It’s not recycled self-help. And it’s not a rant about “real men.” It’s a practical guide built on timeless masculine traits backed by real stories from history, straight-up steps you can use and much more.

"Wild, stark, unbezwingbar: Die Urkraft des Mannes entfalten“ ist kein gewöhnliches Hörbuch – es ist ein Ruf zurück zu deiner wahren Natur. In einer Welt, die von Erwartungen, Rollenbildern und Anpassung geprägt ist, lädt dich dieses Buch ein, deine maskuline Essenz neu zu entdecken und zu leben. Es richtet sich an Männer, die spüren, dass in ihnen mehr steckt als das, was sie im Alltag zeigen – Männer, die bereit sind, ihre innere Kraft zu entfesseln. In dir schlummert eine rohe, ungezähmte Energie – und dieses Hörbuch hilft dir, sie zu wecken.

When a looming career funk, a growing drinking problem, and a challenging trek through therapy battered Dave Hollis, a Disney executive and father of four, he began to realize he was letting untruths about himself dictate his life. As he sank to the bottom of his valley, he had to make a choice. Would he push himself out of his comfort zone to become the best man he was capable of being, or would he play it safe and settle for mediocrity?

Tired of walking on eggshells, only to be blamed for her chaos? Why does the system punish you for defending your sanity, dignity, or wallet? How this book will save your life, it: Exposes the evolutionary playbook women use to exploit male labor and loyalty.

What is masculinity? Ask ten men and you'll get ten vague, conflicting answers. Unlike any book of its kind, The Way of Men offers a simple, straightforward answer - without getting bogged down in religion, morality, or politics. It's a guide for understanding who men have been and the challenges men face today. The Way of Men captures the silent, stifling rage of men everywhere who find themselves at odds with the overregulated, overcivilized, politically correct modern world.

Today’s society has set men up for failure. They’re told to suppress their masculinity, focus on being vulnerable, and that just being the “Nice Guy” is enough to attract the right woman. These outdated beliefs have led many men to struggle in relationships, sacrifice their ambitions, feel frustrated, and dangerously depressed.

"Мужчина должен…" — а что он должен? Почему кто-то диктует ему, каким быть и что делать? Мужчины тоже устали жить по чужим установкам и исполнять чьи-то прихоти. Может, пора это изменить? Дэвид Лазба готов поделиться с вами инструментами, которые укрепят вашу мужественность. Следуя инструкциям из книги:. • Разберитесь со своими комплексами,. • Займитесь своим здоровьем,. • Постройте здоровые отношения во всех сферах жизни,. • Самосовершенствуйтесь. "Пробуждение воина" расскажет вам о том, какими могут быть ценности; как функционирует мужской организм и как улучшить свою жизнь.

White boys and men are dangerous. White boys and men are struggling. Both of these statements are staggeringly true in America today. By far, most large-scale mass shooters are white men. White men also die by suicide more often than any other demographic. In this sensitive, searing, and unsparing look at American boyhood, journalist, mother, and pastor Angela Denker investigates the sometimes-tragic stories of boyhood across the United States.

Privilegiado, violento, opresor… cuando se juzga la figura masculina desde una perspectiva de género el veredicto es inequívoco: los hombres dominan la política, los negocios, las instituciones religiosas, numerosos ámbitos científicos y culturales, además de estar sobrerrepresentados como victimarios en las estadísticas de crimen violento y sexual. Sin embargo los varones también protagonizan la mayor parte de los suicidios, muertes laborales y víctimas de homicidio.

De kedelige kendsgerninger er, at mænd i snit lever kortere end kvinder, har større problemer med at komme gennem uddannelsessystemet, ofte er uden nære relationer, og deres dialog med lægen er vanskelig. Samtidig fylder mænd i de triste statistikker over selvmord, misbrug og tidlig død. Med lune og nedslag i sit eget liv tegner Svend Aage Madsen, psykolog og førende mandeforsker, et portræt af det mangfoldige mandeliv og skitserer en vej frem, der kan give flere gode, lange og sunde mandeliv.

Die Berater Vincent-Immanuel Herr und Martin Speer sind oft in reinen Männerrunden unterwegs. Ob im Meetingraum oder abends an der Bar: Ihnen fällt immer wieder auf, wie engagiert viele Männer gegen Gleichstellung argumentieren und welche patriarchalen Denk- und Argumentationsmuster vorherrschen. In ihrem Hörbuch berichten sie aus erster Hand, wie Männer unter sich über Sexismus, Gendern und Quoten sprechen. Dabei unterscheiden sie verschiedene Typen, erklären deren Befindlichkeiten und nehmen Aussagen wie "Dieses Gendergetue ist Mädchenkram. Wir haben echt wichtigere Probleme" auseinander.

How do you raise boys to men in a world where trouble beckons at every turn? How do you make sure they learn the 'right' lessons, stay out of danger, find a path to follow? How do you ensure they'll be OK? Celia Lashlie has some of the answers. After years working in the prison service, she knows what can happen when boys make the wrong choices. She also knows what it's like to be a parent—she raised a son on her own and feared for his survival. As a crucial part of the Good Man Project, she talked to 180 classes of boys.

While hardly a new phenomenon, masculinity—which includes elements of toughness, independence, and leadership, among others—roared onto the national political stage in America with the 2016 candidacy, election, and presidency of Donald Trump. Research into masculinity dates back over a century, but little attention has been paid to the specific role of masculinity in politics beyond the conventional wisdom that it, rather than femininity, is the dominant force.

The Masculine Mind by Dr. Farhan Khawaja offers a transformative journey into the heart of masculinity, combining scientific insights, personal anecdotes, and practical advice. This book tackles essential topics like overcoming addictions, enhancing self-confidence, and developing the habits needed for a fulfilling life. Dr. Khawaja delves into the complexities of masculinity, from societal expectations and personal identity to physical health and emotional well-being. Whether you're facing personal struggles or striving to reach your potential, this book provides the tools to help you thrive.

A partir de ocho ensayos breves, este libro formula ocho arquetipos que te ayudarán a traer de regreso todo el valor que alguna vez pusiste fuera, en una idea de masculinidad que probablemente no elegiste, y a habilitar distintas capacidades que te permitan construir una masculinidad en tus propios términos, pensada desde el cuidado, la conexión con la naturaleza, el valor, el amor, la redefinición de la fortaleza, los afectos, el bienestar emocional y la amplitud de perspectivas.

يقدم الكاتب أدهم الشرقاوي في هذا الكتاب مجموعة من لأفكار والفصول والخواطر عن المرأة والرجل والعلاقة بينهم، وكيفية اختلاف عقل الرجل عن عقل المرأة من نواحي علمية واجماعية، ويساعد الرجال في كيفية فهم المرأة والتعامل معها على أسس نفسية بأن يقوم الرجل بفهم نفسية المرأة واختلافها عنه جسدياً ونفسياً زكيف يمكن أن يحقق علاقة صحية وسليمة مع المرأة في حياته.

As a result of my podcast and the first book, I often hear people talking about how there are no good men anymore. Femininity too is degrading due to the social Marxism that has invaded our American society. While men are becoming less manly in most measurable ways, women are becoming more traditionally masculine in behavior, and thus, less feminine.