検索キーワード： 結婚・長期パートナシップ

A fascinating look at the key components of romantic love - sex, idealization, aggression, self-pity, guilt, and commitment - argues that romance does not diminish in a long-term relationship, describes the barriers to lasting love, and offers helpful advice on how to promote an enduring love by eliminating self-destructive efforts to protect oneself from its risks.

With The Art of Showing Up, two master teachers apply the Toltec wisdom of The Four Agreements to the topic of creating authentic, healthy, and loving relationships. HeatherAsh Amara and don Miguel Ruiz Jr. share insights on key relationship skills including commitment, trust, healing, communication, and releasing. For each skill, they present guided practices to help you artfully apply these insights in your own relationships - starting with the essential relationship with yourself.

During times of betrayal, when we most need support, sometimes the ones we would turn to first are the betrayers. Other times, we’re saddled with shame and fear. But it’s during these times that we need to learn to trust again. This book offers support, comfort, and community to those struggling with feelings associated with betrayal and guides them to healing from painful experiences of it. Listeners will learn about and move through five stages from betrayal to breakthrough and will be lovingly guided with tools and strategies along the way.

Written by a psychologist and based on the most effective couples therapies, The Couple Skills Workbook will show you how to boost your "relationship IQ" by cultivating greater self-awareness, as well as an increased awareness of your partner's needs. With this how-to guide, you'll learn how to better navigate conflict, reconnect after fights, nurture intimacy, and build a solid foundation for a secure and loving relationship.

A book to offer clarity and guidance when facing the difficult decision of whether your relationship has a future. Whether we should stay in or leave a relationship is one of the most consequential and painful decisions we are ever likely to confront.

先日、ある教育関係者と対談をした。打ちあわせの席で彼がしみじみと口にしたことがある。 「石田さん、見合いっていいですよ」 彼はぼくより６歳年下で、当然恋愛結婚だと思っていた。 「もしかして、お見あいで結婚したの」 創作和食の個室で、彼はお造りをつまみながらいう。 「そうなんです。最初にうちの奥さんと会ったときは、ぼくが18歳で彼女が16歳でした」 驚いた。ふたりともようやく婚姻が可能な年齢になったばかりだ。 「これからこの人と結婚するとわかっている相手と初めて会うというのは、なんだか不思議な感じで、なかなかいいものです」 （本文より）　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　石田衣良ブックトーク『小説家と過ごす日曜日』はこちらから→http://yakan-hiko.com/ishidaira.html

リスクマネジメントの観点から書かれた、大変ユニークな婚活マニュアルがオーディオブックで登場!何故あなたは結婚相手に選ばれないのか?あなたが知らず知らずのうちに付き合ってしまうリスキーな相手とは?どうすれば良いパートナーに巡り逢える?人生の貴重な時間を無駄にしないためには、どのように婚活を進めれば良いのかを徹底的に解説。普段のちょっとした心がけで出来る、幸せを呼び込むリスクヘッジ手法を紹介しています。筆者はリスクマネジメントコンサルタントの下田貴之。ナレーターは声優の千葉いずみ。1. ~プロローグ~心理テスト2.心理テスト解説3.お互いの相性について4.未来のリスクについて5.パートナーを見極める方法6.恋人を探す方法7.実践ナンパ術8.気になる人へのアプローチ方法9.サイトの活用方法10.初対面でのアピール方法11.魅力的な自分とは12. ~エピローグ~あとがき 以上の12章に別れています。結婚相手が見つからない方、結婚を真剣に考えている方、結婚に悩んでいる方全てに贈ります。切実に人生を変えたい人のための130分11秒。聴くだけ婚活が上手く行くヒントが満載です。(C) Finarist Corp.

産みたくない人がいて、産みたい人がいて、それでいい。少し前に、女優の山口智子さんが「子どもをつくらない人生を選択した。

BPD and NPD expert Randi Kreger provides targeted resources to help you build the confidence you need to navigate your relationship safely and effectively. Packed with in-depth information and proven-effective skills, this guide will help you evaluate your relationship, discover what you truly want and need, and gain the courage needed to make healthy decisions.

Discover profound connection and healing, even if past misunderstandings and emotional struggles have left you feeling disconnected and lost. Reimagine your relationship and master the art of communication with empathy and enlightenment. Are you yearning to rekindle emotional closeness with your partner and struggling with the cycle of misunderstandings that seem impossible to break? Do you wish to express your needs confidently without fear, yet find yourself avoiding difficult conversations?

If you want to find love with a wonderful man, but have grown disillusioned and weary after years of rejection, then this is the dating guide and inspirational tale for you. In this book you will discover how to manifest the man of your dreams. This book spills all of the valuable dating intel that Penelope has accrued over the years. Everything she wishes she had known back then, you can know right now! You will rediscover your sense of excitement, hope, joy and expectancy while having a lot of fun getting yo know yourself. So, get ready to manifest the man of your dreams!

Written by two seasoned mental health professionals, this guide clears up the confusion about what women really want—and it’s not what you’ve been told. Forget the myth that “better communication” fixes everything. You’ll get clear, practical tools you can use daily to rebuild trust and connection. Based on thousands of therapy hours and interviews with women, this book reveals what’s often missing in relationships—and why traditional couples therapy often falls short. Backed by evidence-based insights, it will help you shift the dynamic and build the relationship you both deserve.

Чтобы ответить на главный вопрос, волнующий романтических партнеров, авторы книги предлагают совершить захватывающее путешествие по миру взаимоотношений, познакомиться с позитивным опытом успешных супружеских пар и узнать их особые «рецепты». Свежие идеи, техники и приемы, о которых здесь рассказано, точно будут для вас полезными! Придерживаясь принципов, описанных в данной книге, вы сможете создать, улучшить и сохранить отношения в паре.

We all know that the greatest commandment is to love. However, relatively few of us know how to express our love in the heart language of our family and friends. Fortunately, in The Five Love Languages Gary Chapman identifies the five primary love languages and teaches us how to use these languages to express our love.

Iconic couples' therapist and best-selling author Esther Perel returns with a provocative look at relationships through the lens of infidelity, providing the insight we so desperately need to help us move beyond a simplistic discussion. An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. Adultery has existed since marriage was invented, and so, too, have the prohibitions against it - in fact adultery has a tenacity that marriage can only envy.

Like millions of women, Laura Doyle wanted her marriage to be better. But when she tried to get her husband to be more romantic, helpful, and ambitious, he withdrew - and she was lonely and exhausted from controlling everything. Desperate to be in love with her man again, she decided to stop telling him what to do and how to do it. When Doyle surrendered control, something magical happened...

Boundaries are limits we establish for ourselves and implement through action or communication. Personal Boundaries for Dummies gives you all the basics on what boundaries look like (spoiler: they aren't "one-size-fits-all"), along with step-by-step instructions for figuring out what your boundaries are and communicating them with others.

Bulletproof & Unbreakable Marriage is my honest, straight-talking, Christ-centered guide for couples who want more than a nice marriage. They want a love that can take a hit—and stand strong. This book is for couples at every stage—whether you’re newly married, in a rough patch, or simply wanting to go deeper. It’s full of hard-earned wisdom, practical strategies, personal stories, humor, and biblical truths that will encourage and equip you for the journey.

Feel like you’re talking, but he’s not listening? You’re not alone—and you’re not the problem. If your conversations leave you feeling unheard, shut down, or like you’re doing all the emotional work, it’s time for a new way to connect. In this compassionate and practical guide, you’ll learn how to talk to a man and finally feel heard—without nagging, people-pleasing, or losing your voice in the process. Say It Right So He Listens gives you the exact tools to break the frustrating cycle of being dismissed or misunderstood.

Tonya Lester has a bold piece of advice for every conflict-averse person in the world: It’s OK to be difficult. Not mean, not rigid, not a bully — but the kind of difficult that makes the people in your life see you and understand what you need.