Walking the streets of Da Nang at 7am, two days into acupuncture at the Da Nang Traditional Medicine Hospital, and I can feel my nose again. I can rotate my neck. I haven't been able to do that in years.

Turns out a lot of what I thought was just who I am... was a story I'd stopped questioning.
This episode is about identity, labels, and what happens when someone quietly tells you the field of possibilities is much larger than you thought.

in this episode:

- EDS, chronic neck pain, daily headaches - and the unconscious identity I'd built around all of it
- What the doctor at Da Nang Traditional Medicine Hospital said that cracked everything open for me, and what it's got me questioning as a result
- The nectar - and what it actually feels like when your nervous system finally lets go
- Why TCM has no label for EDS or ADHD - and what that made me think
- What I noticed watching Da Nang locals at 7am and why we've got it completely back to front
- The question I've been sitting with - and taking into client calls ...

Which label are you just taking as the full story that could change your life if you let it go? Pick it up. Look at it from every angle. Ask yourself who you'd be without it.

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I recorded this one in Ubud on our last day before flying to Vietnam, and I'll be honest - I was procrasta-recording. My brain did not want to do the thing I was supposed to be doing, so I just hit record and let it flow.

Thirty days in Southeast Asia. Off Vyvanse cold turkey. Weaning off estrogen at the same time. I genuinely didn't know how this was going to go. Turns out, more okay than I expected - but not without the good, the bad, and the genuinely ugly.

• why I couldn't bring stimulant medication into Southeast Asia and what I decided to do about it
• the 47th birthday breakdown that finally cracked open my ADHD and autism diagnosis
• the estrogen-dopamine connection and why perimenopause hit so differently unmedicated
• why Bali's overstimulating chaos has actually felt more manageable than home did
• the push-pull between autistic routine needs and ADHD novelty hunger - and what happens when you feed the starving one
• sleep, movement, and what a genuinely rested brain feels like after years of not having one
• the emotional waves - grief, homesickness, midnight catastrophising - and learning to let them move through without gripping

links mentioned:

• Tune in to S3E15 Riding the Perimenopausal + ADHD with Adele Wimsett -> Listen here
• Tune in to S5E25 Cosmic Weather Forecast (True Sidereal Solar Return Human Design for Kylie) with Etai Nahary -> Watch on YouTube here or Listen here

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I recorded this Gap Year Chronicles episode on the rooftop in Ubud on our final day before flying out to Vietnam, and it came out a level of real + raw I didn't plan.

Between an ear infection that kept me out of the water for a week, some big conversations with clients, and a fair amount of my own unravelling, I find myself sitting with a question I haven't been able to shake: who are we when the old version of you stops fitting?

If you've ever felt caught between who you were and who you're turning into, gloopy, unmoored, not quite there yet, this one's for you.

in this episode:

- why identity is never just one thing: genetics, epigenetics, conditioning, and the macro and micro systems that shape who we learn to be
- the jar of pickles analogy and why you can't read the label from inside the jar
- the natural identity threshold points for women, including puberty, motherhood and perimenopause, and the invitation to be both radically self-responsible and deeply gentle with yourself in those moments
- the realisation I had in the shower that I am not a lone wolf at all, and what leaving Australia without my pack has actually felt like
- the two trapezes: why the free fall between old identity and new is terrifying and necessary at the same time
- why the dissolving, the grieving, and the letting go of old identities is just as valid a part of evolution as the wins

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Recorded live on a beach in Candidasa, East Bali.

It started as a conversation with a client about magnetism. That feeling when everything is effortless and you're not trying to attract anything, it's just happening.

Somewhere on this walk I had a bit of a chiropractic adjustment of the soul.

In this episode:

• Why magnetism isn't a skill you turn on and off, it's a state you're in
• The equation that shifted everything: well-resourced = life force energy
• How grind culture has us treating self-care as the reward after the work, when actually it IS the work
• Why choosing not to move, rest, eat well or play isn't just a wellness miss, it's a "no thank you" to life force energy
• What this looks like for neurodivergent people when effortless magnetism + rejection sensitivity dysmorphia collide
• A question I want to leave you with on your True Sky HD and effortless magnetism

If you relate to that feeling of effortless radiance, I want to hear from you.

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What does it really take to completely change your life? Host Kylie shares the full story of selling up, leaving the country, and slow travelling the world with Mr P, including the fear, the tears, and the moment in an airplane bathroom mirror that made it all real.

In this episode:

• The full behind the scenes of a huge leap of faith
• Why the good girl nearly talked her out of the whole thing
• Off ADHD meds and overstimulated in Bali, and what that actually looks like
• What the good girl in your business is actually costing you
• Why waiting for life force to speak beats creating from "I should"
• The squirrel incident (yes, really)

Ready to rip off the good girl gag? Join me for Good Girls Don't Lead Revolutions

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This is it folks!

The last episode before Mr P and I head off on our Gen X gap year. I'm sharing the story of how the wild, self-trusting part of me went quiet, what it took to bring her back online, and the pinch-me opportunity that landed in our laps as a result.

In this episode:

- the 2011 cold call to a New York wellness centre that led to an internship, a house sale, and my whole family on a plane in six weeks
- how a conversation with a real estate agent four months ago cracked everything open again
- how five months caretaking brand new beachfront villas on a tropical island landed in our laps, and exactly how it happened
- the difference between affirming you're a magnet for opportunities versus actually being open and safe enough to receive them
- what I'm noticing about women in that mid-life "wait, is this really what I want?" season

And finally, how I'm planning to show up for you on the road!

The wild one is not gone. She was just waiting in the wings for me to say "I AM READY!!!".

Enjoy x

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Most of us place our order with the universe and then quietly cancel it the moment things get hard.

Not dramatically. Just... we stop owning it. Stop speaking it. Stop letting ourselves want it as much.

This episode is about what it actually takes to place a crystal clear order and hold the identity of someone who receives it, before it shows up in your reality.

This is a solo episode and it's a juicy one. Fresh off the back of S6E32 and the "I am my own solid ground" moment, Kylie goes deeper into the inside out identity shifts that actually change what becomes possible in your life and business.

Here's what we get into:

• why most of us are better at holding ourselves through fear than we are at holding ourselves through joy, ease and desire
• the ocean of abundance analogy and why so many of us are holding up a thimble
• what placing a crystal clear order to the universe actually looks like
• why identity shifting is the missing piece that no morning routine, mentor or magic pill can replace
• the difference between wanting something and being the woman who receives it
• what your values have to do with all of it and where the gaps are hiding

Strategy only is not shifting your business or your life. This one is about the inside out work that does.

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There's a version of safety that comes from control. From knowing what's coming, staying in familiar territory, not rocking the boat.

And then there's the other kind.

The kind that doesn't need circumstances to cooperate. The kind that doesn't need the external world to hold still so you can feel okay.

This is a solo episode, and it's a personal one.

In the middle of one of the biggest life transitions I've made in years, handing back the keys to our family home and preparing to fly out to Southeast Asia for a Gen X gap year, I had a moment in my kitchen that stopped me in my tracks.

Heart pounding. Brain spinning. Fear doing its very convincing thing.

And then, through the noise, a single clear message: I am my own solid ground.

In this episode I share what that moment actually felt like in my body, the stories fear was running to try to keep me stuck, and why your capacity to hold yourself through fear is directly proportional to how much ease, flow and green lights you get to experience on the other side of it.

We also talk about:

• Why fear isn't your enemy, but it will absolutely lie to you
• What happened in the weeks after that kitchen moment (hint: green light, green light, green light)
• The two "self-care snacks" I keep coming back to when my nervous system is running hot
• What it actually means to be your own solid ground and why that changes everything
• The question I want to leave you with: what would be possible for you if you truly heard that voice?

Fear and freedom really are two sides of the same coin. This episode is about learning to hold both.

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